My b/f and I have been going out for a year and a half, give or take a month or two... and we've been biding our time, finding new little ways to make each other feel good...
The other day, he started fingering me, and we got it going well (after having some advice given)... but when we tried to do it again, I was very uncomfortable, he couldn't find what it was he had felt before, and it was hurting when he tried to go deeper into me, when it hadn't been before. Actually, it was more of a stinging than anything else... Anyway, I was wondering if we were doing something wrong or if there's a "right" way to do it. I think it had something to do with the fact that his finger was dry, but I don't know anything about this. Please offer your advice.
Also, a friend told me that losing my virginity would not be painful, but I read here that it is. Is there any way whatsoever to make it not hurt? Or will it always hurt to some extent?