Is this cheating?

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I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for 2 1/2 months now....But there is this other guy that i like..i sometimes flirt with him when no one else is looking. we make jokes to eachother like "hes my stalker" and stuff like that. Is this cheating?

I think flirting with another guy is not a good thing to do. Either you are setting things up to cheat, or you are deliberately giving him false hopes.

Agreed. I'm gonna be 100% honest with you here, but you are the exact type of girl I HATE. I mean extreme hate here too.I'm sorry to have to say it, but I have no good feelings towards people like you.Mainly because I'm like the guy you're flirting with. There's no chance of me ever getting anywhere, yet you continue to flirt giving me a chance of false hope.At the same time, it's also giving the impression that your current boyfriend isn't good enough.Maybe that's the point? In which case dump him now so you don't seriously damage his feelings any further and go out with your "stalker" as you very amusingly put it.Either that or lock yourself away so mankind doesn't have to deal with people like you any more.Sorry about the blunt and blatantness of this post, but this is the thing I feel the most strongly over anything else on this cruddy little planet.

I wouldn't consider it cheating, just a very mean thing to do.

to all three parties

I am basically co-signing for everything that everyone has said so far. Technically, it is not cheating but you are definitely towing the line. Something must be wrong in your relationship if you are constantly looking and craving attention from other guys. You are setting yourself up for drama if you continue this. My advice to you, is to rethink what you want and make a choice.

don't juggle around guys, find one and go for it, find another one, break up with the current one and then go 4 it. Not to hurt ur feelables but you are inmature(spelling?) right now and .....well just go into a little corner and think about a guy ur in love with flirting with other girls.... how would u feel.....you may not believe it, but us guys have feelings too !!!

I agree with all above. dont be one of those girls that plays games like that. Its very hurtful to both guys, and its a real way to kill his self-esteem

Would you get pissy with your B/F if he were teh one doing it with some other girl??
I bet you would, you can say no but I got money that says youd be pissy, if not with th current one then with another one that maybe you were still in perpetual lust with instead of one youd grown tired with.If it would piss you off, it would probally piss him off too.