I have been with my girlfriend for 11 months as of the 19th of this month. I love her so much I could cry thinking about how much she makes me happy, and how grateful I am to have her. But the problem is, I know I trust her with all my heart but I have these stupid little thoughts and insecurities... It really pisses me off because she doesn't deserve that shit and I know I trust her but they still come to mind... Like for instance i'll just look through her school stuff thinking i'm going to find something but be 100% sure i'm not.. But I just have small impulses that urge me too.. I don't know if it's that I don't trust myself or what, it just scares me that things like that could pop into my head. This has never happened to me before, or to anyone I know (any of the thoughts that come to mind) but if anyone has any advise or anything, please help.
I hate this... :(
If she is as happy with you as you are with her then their should be a bond of trust between you !i mean did she ever give you as sign that thing werent going to well????im pretty sure its a thing us guys do... get a bit nervous that perhaps this girl is to good for us and the why is she with me when their is HIM but believe me trust is one of the hardest things to get but one of the easiest things to brake!! so ....becareful if you are going through her stuff and you get caught she will assume you dont trust her.Hope it helps !
This can easily destroy a relationship, so it's important. You need to stop going through her things and any other checking up on her.Are you a general worrier? Or might it come from a lack of confidence in yourself?
Hey. I used to get like that with my man... and I regret every second of it. Try to remember that she hasn't done anything to make you not trust her. Until something happens to trigger off an insecurity in your mind, leave her stuff alone or be open to her about what you are doing. Talk to her and tell her what is going on in your head, I know it helped me feel a lot better.