Desensitizing condoms -- discreet packages?
Hi, first, does anyone know if those desensitizing condoms like durex performa, actually work? they're supposed to numb you a little bit?
also, im not close enough to my gf where i'd want her to know i need to use these, so i'd be embarrassed if each individually wrapped condom said "desensitizing" or "perfomance extender". does anyone know if which brand has more of a generic packaging for the individual condoms?
thx
To be honest, I'm not sure you're girlfriend would be examining each packet before you used it... so I don't think that would matter... also, if you were comfortable to be having sex with her would you mind her knowing you want to last longer for her???
perfect answer, Amz!
They work by containing a mild local anaesthetic on the inside, so you feel less. Be careful not to use them inside out, or she'll get the effect instead of you.
I agree with everyone here. If you guys are having sex you should be comfortable around eachother, or at least i hope. You are doing this for her so she would prolly be grateful to u for that. If she looks at u wierd because of it then theres something wrong with her
I used them once. Never again. I didn't come after an hour and a half.In fact, I never did
ive used them with my ex boyfriend and theyre good, but he never came when we used them, we always had to replace it with a normal condom when he wanted to cum.i think maybe looking into techniques to make u last longer, or considering whether how long ur lasting is actually the norm might be helpful too!and durex performa i think have generic packaging....
A trick to lasting longer is to look into the girl's eyes. Lose yourself in the moment and you'll last a lot longer. Just make sure the condom's ok as you go along. Take short breaks.
