hi ppl, im a high school stunt and i want to ask for your advice.okay, so about a year ago i asked a girl to go out with me but she rejected me. after that happened, i thought that i wouldnt have to like her again but i was wrong. i still have feelings for her and i always look at her whenever she passes by. not like stalking but i look at her from the corner of my eye. whenever i hang out with her friends and she is there, i never talk to her or even look at her. what i want is to get rid of this feeling for her. can yall help me out?
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Emotional problem
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In my experience you'll never get rid of the those feelings for her completely. Just be her friend or be friendly and don't burn that bridge, remember what she wants may change someday. Just don't live your life waiting on that day to roll around. What you need to do is find a girl that your attracted to and transfer your attractions to the new girl (a girl that you might have a shot with). After you find that new person your interested in screw up your courage and find out if she's interested in you. If she is great, if not start the process over again until you find someone who is interested. What your doing now is just a waste of time and energy that you could be spending chasing a different piece of tale, and remember possibly getting some of that tale.It may not be easy to just put someone you wanted behind you but it's the only thing that you can do, unless you become a stalker. And, stalker situation rarely end up well anyway.
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You can get rid o those feelings, all youhave to do is marry them. It worked or me, I hate that bitch I used to be married to :wink:
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A love can be forgotten only with love, and this cannot be scheduled. So, be patient. You'll find another girl, you'll fall in love with her, and you'll forget this one. What you're doing now is correct. You cannot see as a friend someone you love. So, don't try this.
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You know I don't know really what to tell you.But in the situations where you are around her, you don't have to ignore her. You could talk to her if it were ever directed that way. Maybe she would change her mind if you didn't ignore her and let her know you were there in the room. It could happen, maybe.But it is hard to have feelings go away for a person expecially if you are in contact with them in one form or another.
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another great post :smirk:
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Thanks ^_^ !!!Btw, I also like anime and japanese music a bit (L'arc en ciel).
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Not too crazy about anime but I love Japanese music and sang a few songs in Japanese for some peoples... fun. Translations are too much work.
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thanks guys, i just got back from a trip and have school coming up, i hope i can find someone else