ok thanks for replying to my previous post, now heres the problem, i dont no what the matter with me, its as if i dont love anyone anymore. Let me clear it up, i have had lots of girlfriends and enjoyed the relationships with them, however, now i feel nothing, i dont fancy any gals at all so whats wrong with me, whay do i feel nothing? is it because i just dontlike any of the girls around me at the moment or is it something else any advice would be really cool,cheersp.s someone commented on my spelling i hope this is ok for them lol:grin
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This is kinda worrying
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You're just between relationships at the moment - a good time to get as much schoolwork done as you can. Perhaps you're also feeling a little down just at the moment?
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wat do u mean u dont 'love' anyone right now...from ur attitude it sounds like you havnt loved anyone...saying youve had lots of gfsif you were in love with a girl u wouldnt have the time to date a bunch of girls...because you would be attached to her...and only wanna be with herum and it sounds like u just dont like any girls around ufind new ones
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I agree with Ineligible.. being between relationships is great.. good to have "ME" time.. i've never been so content being single.. and if you get lonely.. just casually date!! Being in your situation is a good time to focus on you, school, and the things YOU care about!
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Could be your emotions are just tired and need a well deserved brake
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I agree with the others who say it's "ME" time. Don't let it bother you, you'll be back in there before you know it. But for now, just relax and think about yourself for a while.
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Are you feeling like your missing out on not being in a relationship? Because you can never force love, it comes naturally. And if it's the other stuff, go with the flow.
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I'd think that you've experienced really intense relationships b4 and the ones you've had recently are just not up to the standards of wut u expected, it also might be that you already found the right girl for you but just didn't go 4 it and kinda ignoring ur current relationships
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I think the Fancying and crush stuff is something you grow out of. Im 20, i dont fancy anyone although women i find attractive will gain my attention, theres no infactuation and i dont lay in bed dreaming of particular women.
I also think love is something that has to be worked at. Its only when your with someone for enough time that even the thourght of not being with them for even a second makes you sick to the stomache, at the beginning of a relationship its all about the sex, after a few months when the flame dyes out a bit do you find yourself feeling the same way about your partner do you truely know you love that person.
And yeah, getting some 'you' time will do you good you never know whats around the corner!