Hey guys I have a question about date rape.

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Im in a hurry and cant google it right now, but i need to know the kinds and what they do. I have a situation and I need info. hugs bye

Like what people use to do it? Rohypnol is one I believe, learned about it in Health class. People like to slip it in with beers and give them to girls, the warning sign is if you suddenly feel really drunk and you haven't really drank a lot.It's pretty dangerous too. There have been cases where the girls have ended up in comas.I think GHB is another, but I don't know if that's right or not. I need to pay more attention in class

Date rape hey, it's a big issue in Australia now, a women that has her drink spiked and has been date raped will be tested for drugs, you can go to jail for a long time and I think you deserve it. You must be such a pathetic human being, remember what goes around, comes around.

It's really nice you give advice to people like this, it seems like you've been in situations like this. Remember what goes around comes around. And I hope it does!!!

I once got this chain e-mail about this new drug they started using which prevents pregnancy PERNAMENTLY which is oh so very fucked up.

>>>>>You must be such a pathetic human being, remember what goes around, comes around.

**If you had read any of Java's post you would know shes isn't the kinda person to be using them, more like finding out if someone used it on a friends or someone she knows.............don't jump to conclusions and get all pissy with people before you know what the score is! **

I once got this chain e-mail about this new drug they started using which prevents pregnancy PERNAMENTLY which is oh so very fucked up. -yeh ive heard of that drug too,dont know if its true thoughi think apart from GHB and Rohypnol, another one that is sometimes used is ketamine-i might be wrong though..

Excuse me? One of my friends went to a club and i didnt see her for 3 days until she was on my doorstep unconscious. Dont jump to conclusions about me or my life if you don t know me.

ketamine...yes that rings a bell.

yeah, kets a horse tranquilizer. a lot of people using drugs voluntarily take it.ghb is one of the only things i know about from first hand. if your friend was sharing a drink with someone there is definatly a risk she was spiked. if he has very little recollection of what took place the night before, again, possibly a victim of ghb date rape. it goes out of the system VERY quickly so there is no trace when most girls go to get tested. about 24-48 hours i think. if she hasnt been tested for date rape drugs in time then there isnt an awful lot that can be done. its just her word against his. he'll just say it was consented and the girl is just crying rape. oh, when i was targetted i found this website that was quite helpful:http://womenshealth.gov/faq/rohypnol.htm#3really hope she and you are ok. feel free to give me a pm if you need to talk about it more hugs x

oh wow. what happened? is she ok?

she doesnt remember anything for 3 days straight, she had no idea where she was when she finally woke up in the hospital. a few hours after i found her. nothing htey found was in her system, but she had horrible vaginal tears. she doesnt even remember who did that to her. the world makes me sick these sick freaks out there god.

That's some sick shit. Just remember, if you haven't drank much, and suddenly feel really drunk, get near someone who'll look after you and tell them what's going on. Or if you ever see someone slip something into someone's drink, confront them. Or at the very least, keep an eye on whoever they give the drink to.Shit like that makes me sick. If I ever see anyone slip something into someone's drink, I'm decking them. Then while they're down, I'm gonna kick them in the balls, cause I sure as hell don't want them to have any kids, or have a fully functional dick. Actually I might hold off on the second part - I suppose there might be an explanation. But if it is some date rape shit, my foot is going straight to the balls. You know, I've heard stories about some frat at I think Boston University that has two fridges - one with regular beers, and one with drinks with roofies in them. I don't know how true any of this is, but supposedly the state law in Mass holds you responsible because you were engaged in the underage drinking. Someone find out if any of this horseshit is true.

The thing about the Boston U. frat sounds like a crazy urban legend, probably started by some BU frat boy. The penalty for underage drinking is pretty minor. The penalty for drugging someone with the intention of raping them is a very serious felony, and it will get you put in jail for a long, long time.Java, if your friend was kidnapped for several days and raped, whoever did it is eligible for a very long sentence at San Quentin. I assume the police are involved.

Police are deffinatly involved, but there isnt much they can do. no one saw who dropped her off, and she doesnt know what he looked like. All we know is he must have known i was her friend and where i live which freaks me out. god damned sick freaks.

The thing that shocks me the most about this kind of shit is how common it is. My mums a social worker and I hear about fucked up stuff alot.

shit thats fucked up. and unless shes taken anything drug wise then it sounds a hell of a lot like date rape. its a shame its so quick to leave the system and its such a difficult thing to prosicute for. if i were you id ask the police to have someone watch your house for a while if this sick fuck knows where you live. we dont want anything to happen to you and it would make you feel a whole lot safer. really hope youre ok. take care hunny xx

Well, Ill be alright. im moving out of the dorms and taking a semester off so i dont have to worry about it, but it scares the hell out of me. Im keeping my fella here for the next few days before I leave. She'll be in the hospital for a week, and ill be gone before she gets out. She doesnt do any drugs, her only fault is being skinny and pretty and going to those god damned clubs where those sick fucking freaks are and making herself vulnerable. I hope someone reads this and thinks twice for doing that shit cuase look at what can happen!

yeah, its not just the person who was raped thats affected. my best friend got a shoe to my rapists head the next morning. if my other friends hadnt pulled her off i wouldnt put it past her to have done a proper job of messing him up.i very much doubt your friends going to want to go to any kind of counselling about this but i would reccommend it. if not there are a lot of helplines, websites and forums she can find comfort in. i can google them if you want

my best friend got a shoe to my rapists head the next morning.That really doesn't make much sense. It won't stop him from doing it again. The police would have been a lot more effective, if you knew who the guy was.