Okay. So, I just got a job a few weeks ago. I am a cashier at a retail store. The other day, I was working, and toward the end of my shift they sent me out to their gas station to do backup. Then, when I came in, I noticed that there was a cute gal working on the register one away from where I had been. Of course, they gave mine away to someone else and then stuck be back on one 5 lines away! But, after clocking out, I went to buy some things that I needed, and her line just happened to be the shortest wait, so I went through it. I do not still think she knows that I even work there. Anyway, I laid my stuff down, she rang it up, then rang up my newspaper, not seeing there were two. I pointed it out; she thanked me for being honest . Anyway, point of the story: she was real cute, and real sweet... now I wanna ask her out. BUT, I have never directly asked a girl out before; and I do not want my directness approach to begin here with someone I work with! I need it to be discrete... or something that allows my face to be saved if she does not go for it. But, getting up the nerve to do even that is hard. So, I need some suggestions (like always). Also, I have decided that I will not masturbate anymore. I have a feeling that not doing so will increase my sex desire enough to subconsciously make me more aggressive, and will hopefully push me a little to do it, whether I have nerve or not. That is all the plan I have... thanks Any others? LQ
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Getting up the Nerve sin Masturbation
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As I've said before in another thread, be careful around co-workers. Be sure you know what is accepted in your workplace about co-worker relations before you do ANYthing, because that could jeopardize one or both of your jobs.That being said, just play it casual. Make small talk with her over the next few days when you get chances. If she's getting things for herself at the store offer to ring her shit up, maybe take things to her car, but don't seem desperate.Also, asking politely if she'd like to get some coffee is always a good ice-breaker. Everyone does it and it's hardly an engagement ring, so if she turns it down things wont be awkward, and if she accepts it it wont seem like a commitment.
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Workplace relationships are not prohibited where I work. I have all the manuals read, man... shit, for the policies I have to know they should pay extra! Anyway... okay. I will ask her if she likes coffee. Actualy, I am a coffee junkie, so I ask that of almost everyone; it will not seem awkward at all. Especially when it is late and she is yawning... saying how tired she is; like everyone does. Just ask if she likes coffee YAY! Now I just have to get more hours so I can increase the chances of me working with her! (and build up that bank account )Thanks,LQ(life will really suck if she does not like coffee )
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Originally Posted By: clixx52... be careful around co-workers. Be sure you know what is accepted in your workplace about co-worker relations before you do ANYthing, because that could jeopardize one or both of your jobs. I saw a "Ron White" comedy DVD and he said he got fired from his first job. He worked at a pickle factory, and he got fired for putting his finger in the pickle slicer....They fired her too.
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LOL!
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The best i think would be to get to know her, work from a friendship and non-commitive arrangements upwards. That was she has time to make a decision, as well as you getting more time with her. :]
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That is actually a variation on a rather funny joke. Unfortunately, it is not so funny when told in its clipped form...
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Ahaha. I've seen that one. Ron White is the shit.
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never straight up ask a girl out.maybe after work one day, ask her to go grab some lunch.then if u felt things went well, ask her to go do something else together (something with action).remember: you always are in control and calling the shots, not her. she is already attracted to you, there is no question about it.
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Conversely, nothing is more attractive than a guy who lays it all out on the line; ie. "For lunch, I'd love for you to see this great restaurant I found, I know you'd like it!"And nothing more pathetic than a guy who says "Hey I'm gonna grab something at aslfkkfaksjf, you wanna get something too?"If a guy isn't man enough to say what he really wants, then he isn't gonna cut it. I know it's scary to lay yourself out there on the line and risk rejection, because it's the same level of scariness for girls. But in this world where everyone pretends to be "unaffected" and casual, it is refreshing and ATTRACTIVE to talk to a guy who has courage enough to say "Hey, I'd love to have lunch with YOU." No, you are NOT always in control. Nor am I. If you go into any relationship (dating or friend) thinking one person has to have an upper hand, then it's doomed, guaranteed. You are NOT calling the shots. You are simply living life. She might say yes, she might say no, but the only way you are GUARANTEED to lose is if you go into thinking YOU ARE IN CONTROL.The only way you get anything of value is if you become vulnerable. Good luck. Most people have too much ego to try it.