HELP- Need Advice

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I have had this huge crush on this girl for about 2 months. About a week ago i was going to call her and ask her out But an hour before, i found out that she was asked out by this other guy who i never even herd of before. 1 hour late. Thats my luck. Well she has been going out with this guy for about a week now but i still cant get her off of my mind. I have very strong feelings for her. I cant keep this bottled up for too much longer I want to let her know how i really feel twords her. Is this a good idea or what.. ughhh 1 hour

I'm afraid it's an object lesson on the dangers of putting things off. :frowning: So long as she is going out with the other guy, ethics requires you to stand aside.

I disagree. You need to look out for yourself. You may have waited an hour to long to say nething while she was still single, but i say u still tell her. She aint married to the guy so in my book shes still fair game. Ask me how many times ive broken people up. If theyre meant to be theyll stay together.

That sounds like a recipe for a short relationship with a girl who might have a problem with fidelity.How many times have you broken people up? And how many of the your relationships that resulted from those breakups have ended well?

I think it was 3 times. They ended well, it wasnt like a bad relationship. The problems that occured in those relationships had nothing to do with the other guy. It was just the person that i was dating in general. I apparently saw a different side of them once i dated them

So you busted up three relationships, and then you dumped the girl each time?Is there something wrong with this picture? You made 6 people unhappy for...what? It sounds like a game.

Well i didnt wannt break up with the girls. Things just didnt work. The last one ended up bein the type of girl that would take everything out on me. No matter who made her angry she was mean to me. Then she shuts down and wont talk to me about nething. I couldnt handle it

Well, if you need a girlfriend, there are lots more relationships you can break up. If I were you, I'd go for the challenge of splitting up a married couple.

Yea i thought thatd be my next mission, sort of a new years resolution

I'm a little confused by the word usage here. By asking out, do you mean going out on a date? Are they "talking" or are they in a relationship?I used to stand off when a girl was in a relationship already, but I've grown to care less. I think you should call her up and see if she wants to "go out" or "hang out". If a girl is dating someone else (especially a new relationship) and we go out and have a good time together and she just so happens to like me better, than that just tells me that there was something missing in her other relationship. Or maybe that I offer more than he does. I guess you just have to ask yourself what your moral boundaries are with relationship etiquette.