Larger boobs

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Hi.I'm 13 and I seem to be having abit of a growth spurt, my boobs have got quite big. They aren't massive, but I find them a bit annoying because they always seem to be in the way when I do things, especially sports at school or when I lean over things. I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice about how to make them less of a pain, or am I just going to have to put up with them?Also any advice for how to dress to make my boobs less obvious?Thanks in advance!

im afraid you'll have to deal with it. do make them less noticable wear baggy shirts i guess.

that's what I haven't tried! doh

when i first read your post title and you username i thought you were a spammer LOLLike Helms said, a tight fitting sports bra does the trick and reduces the 'bounce factor'.

I was thinking about sports bras, but is it okay to wear one all the time, or should they only be worn for sports? Is there some danger with squashing my boobs down too much?

I tried the sports bra but it looks like it's pushing the boobs up out of the bra. Is it too small or something?

it was either too small or you were wearing it backwards. A good sports bra should cover your entire boobs and be tight enough that when you jump, they don't bounce all over the place but just shift up and down without pain or a bruised face . To the OP, you can wear one all the time, and nothing would happen...so long as it's not so tight as to stop the circulation lol. Like no1 said, just don't sleep in it - Let 'em loose in your dreams!!

Lol, wow. Yeah I had it on the right way. When I got it, it looked my size maybe bigger. Until I put it on.

actually you know what? just forget it I give up.

...ok...what's wrong?

nothing. I used to pray (christian) for bigger boobs just to fit in or not be mocked by others, and now I regret it. Alot. So I'm just going to deal with it and continue to buy sweaters that are meant for football players. Serious too.

oh no come on JF! There are tons of women out there who have big boobs, but they all deal with it. You don't have to buy huge sweaters and you don't need to be ashamed of them. A sports bra, and higher neckline on the shirt, vertical stripes, black/ dark colors... all these things will help if you want to diminish the look of them. But most of all you should be proud, tons of girls have big boobs, but tons have small or none and would love to be like you. Just be thankful that they're not ginormous that they give you backpain! GIRL POWER!

It's not as easy as it sounds for me. I thought it would be great because I think to myself "hey I'm actually a girl" and now they just get in the way. I am already self-conscious and always have my arms crossed over my chest whenever I talk to someone. And trust me I have TONS of dark clothing and high neck shirts but that same thought still comes in my mind. And turtle necks suck! They mine as well be your second skin. Soccer is practically my favorite sport. That's another disaster. Those other girls are actually proud of theirs. And most even show off. I just want them to go away. Guys can be degrading. It stinks having to return Christmas gifts because of the way they look on you. Makes the person and yourself look bad. Thanks anyway for the advice... and bearing my complaining

Its genes, millions of woman have large breasts and they dont make it a big deal cause, it really isnt.

exactly! and amen to them. because they don't have wolves hanging over them.

wolves hanign over them? whatever taht means, I think you should try out one of those places that will custom fit a bra to you. They help measure and such, it might be a little embarrasing at first having some random person touches and feeling around to get you taht perfect bra, but it will give you more of an idea of what you need. you might pay a bit more the first time or two, but then you'll understand what to go after.good luck!

This is really in your head then...somehow you need to get over that mental block - when you look in the mirror, i bet your eyes dart straight to your boobs, and it's not because they're big, but its because in our head you have nothing but negative thoughts about em and it just magnifies them more. If i remember correctly, you have the same breast size as me... and belive my JF, you are lucky, no matter what you may think. You have what you have, you can't change it and you need to make friends with them. As for playing soccer - a good sports bra would do the trick! All guys look down at a woman's chest...it's natural, and you need to realize that it's not a big deal, not all guys do it, but even I find my self glancing down at girls, and it's not because of their size. Your mind creates all these barriers and insecurities and right away, you don't look at yourself the same.

its a fitting and they do it at victorias secrets. they dont actually touch you, unless a tape measure counts.

well then even better, if she hasn't tried it already. I wouldn't know I've just heard about it, seeing as Im a guy

Thanks, you're right. I'll definately try.What I meant by wolves was the males in my family. Having your dad and brothers be your bodyguard and freak out everytime your birthday comes or see that your shirt actually fits can be annoying