I absolutely hate the state of dating!It is so hard to find ONE decent guy! This is why I've been single practically my whole life because I don't trust guys. I've had a guy lie to me about having a girlfriend and kids. I have tons of guys lie about being single when they're not. Why do guys think it's OK to be deceitful? I am always honest with them, but most of them are never honest with me. So I don't put up with it. If I get vibe that something isn't right, I just stop talking to them. It is such a turn off and that person becomes ugly in my eyes. At this rate, I'll probably be single for a long time, but I feel I'll cut out a lifetime of drama and misery. But I get frustrated and a little lonely. Should I just take the risk of being hurt or should I wait for the right person to come along?
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Dating and Men
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the same reason why woman lie and are decietful...its not just men. I dont know where you go to meet your men, but i havent had a guy lie if he has kids and/or a significant other.
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the annoying thing is you always find the right guy when your not looking and all the losers when you are looking..i know it all to well..>>>>Should I just take the risk of being hurt or should I wait for the right person to come along? respect yourself and be true to yourself
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Oh no! I don't meet them off the internet! It's the guys at the college I attend. I don't promote myself in a way that makes me easily tken advantage of. These guys don't get far with so I dont even know why they try.
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It's not just you. A lot of women overlook the decent guys. This may sound funny, but most of the 'decent' men are the ones that women don't desire. I see it all the time. And then I see women in their 30s who are still single and at that point in their life they actually do notice the decent guys, the only problem is they're all taken. It's a hard game to play, but stay in there and good things are bound to happen.
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I'm female, and I don't think that all men are useless (just 99% of them ) Seriously, it depends how you generate yourself and where you go to meet them (and also their maturity level)And to comment, once upon a time, internet was a no no, but now that we live in the age of technology, the internet has been proving to be quite a suitable venue for meeting individuals, so don't diss it so easy.
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The right person will come along, when you least expect it, and until then i would try to enjoy being you. Loving yourself and your life is what makes people attracted to you, being who you are is what makes people attractive. There will always be some guys, and gals, who lie, but for those that do, what goes around comes around. What i don't understand is why you seem to have such bad luck with men, and the only thing i can think of is that you must be putting yourself forward as a doormat, and attracting those kinda guys. You have to learn to be a strong woman who has confidence in herself and who is happy in her life, do that, and the right man will be attracted to you.as for the internet, i met my now husband on the internet nearly 10 years ago, so it can be a place to meet people, but these days i would be VERY wary!
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Sorry I didn't mean to knock online dating! Anyways, I feel conflicted. I'm young. Shouldn't I want to date around and see what's out there? I never really have so I understand why I wouldn't want to. And anyways is anyone ever COMPLETELY single?
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Yes. Before i met my boyfriend before last i was single. I had just come back from poland and broken up with my fella there. I think I date to many people. I havent lied about if im with a guy and a fella has never lied to me about it. I guess im just lucky?
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LOL i didn't take it as you were knocking online dating hon, and it wasn't online dating when i met my hubby, we just got chatting in a chat room on AOL.as for wanting, not wanting to see what and who else is out there, do whatever feels right for you hon, there is no right or wrong where relationships are concerned and how they work, just don't stand for any rubbish, and enjoy yourself.