i am having a problem peeing in public, with people watching me, or standing next to me even if i am desperate, any tips or anyone else got a similar problem?
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Peeing
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Sounds like something common...you feel pressure or anxiety or shy etc...all can be cured by peeing in a bathroom stall - private and no one's watching.
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This is sometimes called "shy bladder". Many of us are afflicted with it. One tip I have heard but not tried, is that if you work out a mental problem hard enough to completely occupy your brain, the flow will start.
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I have this problem too. It's incredibly frustrating. If I'm peeing at a urinal and someone walks in after I start I'm okay. But I can't do it if there is someone at a nearby urinal, unless there's a really big divider. It really has nothing to do with shyness for me. I don't care if they see my penis. It's just this really weird mental thing.
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I know exactly how to get over it, but you dont want to do it.
When I was locked up, theres a nice community toilet with no walls or anything else, a toilet in the corner and there is 17 inmates besides yoursel and the guards and the cameras. first you get to where you can piss in it, that takes about an hour of holding it in, but you know no matter how long your locked up your not going to take a dump, 24 hours later you start into no no no no NO I will not do it i can hold it! two days later its mmmm I need to get out of here or Im gong ot have to use that thing! by the 72 hour mark you no longer care, you run to the pot and bust a grumpy and dont even care whos watching or what they have to say. Now i could shit on the feet of the pope on pay perview and wash it off with a hot stream of urine for a rinse on live TV and I wouldnt care.
The other short cut that doesnt give you a criminal record is to join the military. rows of shitters with no walls between them everyone shitting and shaving and singing together! YAY!
aside from these two ideas, I think your gonna havta get over it.
When I was working for the Federal Gov., they had a guy to watch us piss in a cup for our drug tests, its not enough to just provide a temp. perfect sample, you have to be observed providing it. -
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aside from these two ideas, I think your gonna havta get over it.
Well, fortunately, we don't have to get over it. We can usually find stalls with walls if the situation warrants. But I do think it would maybe be helpful to spend a week with a bunch of pee-shy guys and be told that we only get to pee at certain pre-designated times during the day, and that would be done in a big circle facing each other. I think by the end of the week, we might be over it.
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Yeah i get this alot of the time
mostly because sometimes i admit A. im shy and B. im curious of other people
so i usually just leave and come back a few min later..if not...just focus on something way out there
like an APPLE!