OK, me and my boyfriend of 1 year just broke up because he said that I was cheating on him. Never once did the thought ever cross my mind. I was totally dedicated to him and I really felt for him the way I have never felt for any guy in my entire life before. He thought that I was cheating on him because I live with my older brother and all of his friends were always over there. One time I did sit on another guys lap though. But I wouldn't consider that cheating. So please help! I try to call him but when he anwsers the telephone he calls me a slut and a whore. He refuses to see me anymore. But I really loved him. PLEASE HELP ME!
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Ex boyfriend trouble
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I have found that people who accuse others of cheating for no reason, often do this cos they have cheated before. Has your BF cheated on you in the past, and if so did you forgive him.No-one would break up with someone after a year, for sitting on some guys lap, he might not be happy, but it isn't that serious in my opinion, so there has to be something that triggered this off........I would leave him alone for a bit, and let him calm down, and then try to get to the bottom of the accusations - good luck hon, let us know how it goes.
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Its very hard to look at somone you think betrays you
I havent accused any of my gf's of cheating before. But of my 3 Girlfreinds I have had in my Life all 3 cheated on me. Its a very empty feeling inside knowing that they dont like you enough to be loyal. It does also screw you up for life too, I for one dont trust any women anymore and would rather be alone and depressed then be with somone being cheated on.
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That is totally different tho. I didnt cheat on him. Unless you consider sitting on another guys lap cheating. Which in this case Im guessing that is what his idea of cheating is. I think that is very immature. And I think that he should grow up. But I think that I still love him.
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is he a very self concious about something wrong with himself?I only ask becuase if I ever accused a girl of cheating on me without proof I would assume that I wasnt good enough and thats why. If he is then it sounds like all he needs is a trip to the doctor to get dopped up on some Prozac. Then he would behave himself.
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I think he is just really fucked up in the head. But I cant stop myself from wanting to be with him. Do you think that i am fucked up in the head for wanting to be with him? Well....i think that he need a physciatrist!
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No one knows why you like him other then you. If he doesnt like you then theres a good chance he probably never will. He thinks you betrayed him and being betrayed is a feeling that is hard to forgive for, whether you did or not doesnt matter becuase he thinks you did. So unless he forgives you for what he thinks you did you will probably never get his attention again. Sorry to say all that, thats probably not what you came on to hear.
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Well I think that I am just going to move on. If heis that immature I think that I deserve somone much better. someone that wont accuse me of cheating when I never did. I guess I just need to get my ass ova him and move on. Thanks for the help guys.
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I agree that he is being immature. If you've been going out a year he should at least be able to talk to you about it. I've always thought that two of the basics in a relationship are communication and honesty. So if he thinks your lying and won't talk to you about it then in my opinion you need to sort this out pretty quickly.Sitting on someone's lap is not what i would class as cheating but I would be pretty jealous if my girl were to do it. But it's not something I'd break up a realtionship over.Talking to him is all I can suggest - and if he won't see your point of view then I'm afraid you'll probably have to move on.
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to me it sounds like he was looking for an out, and just took the cowards way instead of telling you. I know it's hard when you're with someone for a year, but My advice would be to move on.
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Yupperz that is wut i did last night indeed! I found another guy and he is sweet, nice and a lot more mature then my ex!
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well, you got urself in a tricky situation here. By da way i'm a guy. When i'm really into a girl, i'm always afraid that she might be cheating on me because if she did, it'd break my heart. And when my gf is around other guys i'm really uncomfortable. If you're bf was really into you, he might have afraid that you might have been cheating on him and you sitting on that guys lap pushed him over da edge. That is wut i would have thought, but i wouldn't break up with her just 4 that. But all guys r different. My advice would be to tell him how you feel about him and reasure him that you like/love him, and stop doing things around guys that would make him jealous or uncomfortable. And when you guys r back together, ask him why he broke up with u. -really hope it works out 4 u
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If i had a guy that was jelous like that, it dont know if i could deal with it cause most of my friends are guys and we play around a lot (games, flirting ect) ive never had a problem with a guy not completely trusting me though.