My fiance is the only guy that I have really ever been with. He was circumcised at birth but some how part of the skin grew back. So he is like half circumcised. I am really un satisfied with our sex life. I can never feel him when he is inside of me. However, if I use a a normal sized dildo I can feel that quite well. Do you guys think that has anything to do with him not really being circumcised? If so do you have any suggestions?
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Unhappy sex life
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Do you guys mix it up a lot (Different positions, different places, different foreplay) It could be that you've sort of fallen into a rut and doing the same thing over and over. now with the not being able to feelhim inside, that could be from him being terrible thin or small girth wise or it could be from you being to wet and lose all traction.
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i don't think its cos he isn't circumsized, my man is totally uncut and i can feel him. I think it might be as java said, your either too wet or hes a little on the thin side, both can be sorted by using different positions, and a towel
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The extra skin on his penis has nothing to do with it. Are you at liberty to discuss and describe his dimensions? His size shouldn't have anything to do with it. It sounds like he needs some help on how to use it better....
Are you both pretty new at having sex?
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Well first off we are not new to having sex. We have been having sex for 6 years, all of which have been with eachother. I have never really been able to feel him. For a while I thought there was something wrong with me. But then I got a dildo that is about the same size as him. I can fell the dildo perfectly. The only real difference between him and the dildo is that the dildo is firmer. As for his dimensions I would say about 6 inches long. I am not sure about the width but I know I can get my had around the bigest part, with a little room to spare. I don't know maybe its "the motion of his ocean" if you know what i mean.
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In any case, it doesn't sound like his size is the issue. As was mentioned, maybe you get more lubricated when you're with him. Or maybe you should try some new positions. Do you do enough foreplay?
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No we don't do enough foreplay most of the time. So that also eliminates the possibility of me being too wet. I am barely wet enough half the time. But even when we used to do alot of foreplay I couldn't feel him.We do try different positions. Are there any positions that you guys would recommend?
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Are you really sexually attracted to him? Are you able to easily discuss sexual stuff with him?
The Kama Sutra can be fun. That would keep you busy for a while.
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Even though he is a very attractive guy I am not very sexually attracted to him. We can talk pretty openly about sex. I haven't tried the Kama Sutra. I bet that would be interesting.
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your not sexually attracted and your marrying him? That could be an accident waiting to happen, a strong sex life is key for most marriages. i dont mean to pry so ill get off this subject.I would get on wikipedia and search sexual positions, if my memory serves they had a lot (someone asked a question a long time about different sexual positions).
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Even though he is a very attractive guy I am not very sexually attracted to him.Even though sex isn't everything, that could be a big problem.
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Yeah I know but he is so perfect in every other way.
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You have to decide what you think is important. You can fantasize. What goes on inside your head is your own private business. If you experiment and try new things, you might find yourself becoming more sexually attracted to him.
