Is there a way to find out if my hymen is broken?

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doesnt matter, you still go at 18 as a rule of thumb.

Well you dont just go for those reasons. Doctors check for a lot of things that you can get. I would say at 18 you should go no matter what, you can never be to safe

Yeah but if they "search in there" it'll be the first thing going in there. Wouldn't that just be... I don't know awkward and unwanted?

You'd certaintly have wanted your bf instead of a doctor to break it if so.

so lol? yours might be broken before then and my first time going at 19 (i didnt know about the 18 thing only that you go when you get sexualy active) it was really proffesional and i didnt feel that uncomfortable.

well im not a woman, so i dont know what it feels like. But i would think ud wanna go get checked to be safe. I dont like when the doctor touches my sack and makes me cough or puts his finger in my butt either, but u gotta do it

oh great. I'm going to have to try a tampon in 4 years then. Ugh...weird

its really not a big deal, and it doesnt have to be open. he or she wont care or notice, tehy are doctors.

doesnt matter, you still go at 18 as a rule of thumb.That is not correct. You go when you become sexually active, even if you're younger than 18. Or if you have some issue in the "gynocological area".

From what I've learned on this forum is that the hymen is actually right at the opening of your vagina, so grab a mirror and explore! Every girl's hymen is different and you may or may not have broken it. Though if you bf fingered you, I would put my money on it being broken. Then again, if he doesn't go far, he may be just fitting into the natual opening...just have a look. You could also ask your doc, and he cannot tell your parents anything!

How do u tell if it is broken?? Please email me the reponds.

I don’t really know except it covers the opening of the vagina. It can be broken just from riding a bike or from playing softball. Heck, I’ve even read that some girls are even born without one.. You’ll have to wait for one of our female members to answer the question for you. Sorry I don’t anymore than that. Check out this link too. It might help you answer some of your questionshttp://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm