I am 17 years old and a girl. I have been going out with a guy recently(4 years, he is 16) and we haven't really done anything sexually at all. I hang out with this girl I knew for 5 years now... and we done all kinds of things together(sexually). So I am just wondering... am I gay? Or is it normal?
Is something wrong with me?
Are you attracted to your boyfriend? Has he or you ever started anything sexual with the other one and it just gets stopped for some reason?
Are you physically attracted to your friend who is a girl? Would you rather be with her then him?
You know some girls do stuff with their friends and it doesn't necessarily mean you are gay, just curious and experimental. I think most girls have. I have. I am not gay, I am still curious, to an extent, but I am not gay.
Girls going through puberty are more curious, and more likely to experiment, than guys are. It doesn't mean you're gay, you could be bi, or just very easily seually aroused
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what do you care?
Having a good time? enjoying the experience?
Your 17, why are you so anxious to hang a label on yourself?
you are not hurting anyone, so whats it matter? Be who you feel like being and what you feel like being. at some point in time youll know if your gay or bi or straight. Until then do what you feel is right and not what your told is ok.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
> am I gay? Or is it normal?
First of all, you're assuming that gay is not normal.
As was said, the label doesn't matter. Do you feel sexually attracted to guys at all?
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK
Ok.. first of all I haven't tried anything sexual with my boy-friend... although I really want to(he is just never interested everytime I want to). Second, I kind of like my girl friend, both phisically and I like her personallity.
well about your girlfriend it doenst make you gay. You could be sexualy fustrated and she is will to help relive some of that. As a guy i know what your bf is think. It could be one of three thing. He could be waiting for maggage and not ready for it. Have you asked him about it? the next could be that he doesnt thing that you want it. Damn girl if you want it and you dont know if he does rip his fucken pants off or shove his face in between your legs or chest. that will give him the hint that you want some ass from him. Third could be that he is scared because he doenst know what the fuck to do. If that is the case also teach him, talk to him, tell him what he should do and what makes you scream his name more then anything. Talk to your man. Sex is not just dick and pussy. Communication also a big part in a relationship even the sex part of it. i have experican in that field and my gf didnt want sex becuase she though i didnt want it. So she just took my pants off and problem solved. I belive that it is he doesnt think you want it. Show im that you want it. If you have sex dont fuck eachother. Make love. There is a big difference ask any male/female that had done both.