OK so I have been with my fiancé for almost 7 years. I am the only girl he has ever done sexual things with. I hate it but I have trouble giving him head. Well not the actual sucking part, it’s all the precum and cum. He really wants me to be able to either spit or swallow for him but I just can’t do it. I used to be able to suck up until he came but I can't even do that anymore. Well I take that back. If we are in the shower I can sometimes spit. That is because the water will rinse it away immediately.The first time I tried to spit I threw up and ever since then I have had issues with it. I don't even like the sight of cum. However, I am getting better with that one. I used to not even be able to rub it in when he came on me, but now I can do that. I really want to get over this whole thing and be able to give him good head. Do you have any suggestion on how I can get over my fear of cum?
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Giving blow jobs
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Personally, I think if spitting or swallowing disgusts you, he would be a louse to try to make you do it.
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Try not to think about the cum when doing it. Think about the pleasure you are giving him. When his precum starts coming out, move your mouth to the sides of his penis and lick that part so the cum doesn't go in your mouth. Maybe wipe it away or something.
Have a glass of water next to you so when you are done you can take a drink immediately after he cums, whether you spit or swallow.
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simple answer..snowball him :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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**If you don't want to spit or swallow, don't, having someone cum in your mouth is a thing you either like or don't like, and if you don't like it, then he has no right to ask you to do it.
I use my mouth and my hands, so once it got to the time for him to cum, i would use my hand, and let him cum on my breasts or face or something........and it might a substitute for cumming in your mouth.............as for wiping it in? have baby wipes by the side of the bed LOL Things can still be lots of fun, and the more fun you have the more you will get over the 'cum thing'
And if he persists on wanting you to spit or swallow his cum, make him cum on you and get him to lick it off, i bet ya he won't ask you any more LOL **
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What is it that you find so frightening about cum? Maybe the best way to overcome this terror you have is to invite a bunch of his friends over and have a circle jerk where they all squirt into your mouth. After you've got a mouthful of cum from 7 or 8 guys getting just one at a time will seem like nothing.Seriously though, are you really afraid to even TOUCH cum???
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She doesn't like it because it made her feel sick one time. I know what she means, I did go through a stage where I didn't like to touch come.. I simply stopped giving head it took me a little while but when I decided to go down on my current guy at the beginning of the relationship, I liked it again! Maybe (curious21) you should stop giving head for a bit and see how you feel in a couple of weeks or so.. give yourself a break from it!
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Frontandback i take it your response was to the OP and not me
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well one time i asked my gf to swallow ans she said if i do it she will. So she gave me a hand job and she had it in her hand i just ate it, i was like see, not that bad. lol.it depends on what he eats that day is it is water and fruit it will 1. tast like nothing or, 2.tast good.But if he eats bugers,soda and crap it will tast bad.
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Ugh I would hate it if my man did that... I think that would put me off more than anything! Blahhh.. :scream_cat:
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I think you should only do what you feel like doing. He should feel like you're doing it at all. Not pressuring you to do more.
Tell him if he doesn't like the way you do it then you won't do it at all. :wink: