I just recently turned 21 years old a few weeks ago. I'm starting to get really concerned about my growth development. I've felt this way since about the age of 16 but I thought it would change. I look extremely young and a few times my voice has been passed off as a female. Not one day that passes by I get the phrase "Be glad you look young, when your 40 you'll look like your 25!" YEAH, OK BUDDY. Its getting bothersome. I'm scared to even get involved with girls because of my penis size and just overall embarassment of looking 15 at the age of 21. I have a decent amount of pubic hair around my genitals and under my arms but zero on my face. I cannot ejaculate however I do masturbate daily (since the age of 12.) Ive read some other forums about seeking a doctor but im almost too afraid to seek help in just utter embarassment and disgust with my body. At times I feel suicidal because of it. Is it too late? Help.
I have a serious problem.
You really need to go and speak to a doctor about this honey..it is probably to do with your hormones, and they will likely give you a hormone pill or something (help steve! whats it called?! I've got a mental block on today...!) It's not an uncommon problem (note the development of the pills!) and nothing that they haven't dealt with before. There should be no embarassment in you going, because they deal with much worse problems than that every day!!! As for not eljaculating, do you orgasm?
Don't be afraid to get involved with a girl. They will love you for yourself!
> about seeking a doctor but im almost too afraid to seek help in just utter embarassment
I don't know if there's any problem, but you should have discussed it with your doctor earlier. Believe me, they've seen it all before a million times. There is really nothing to be embarrassed about. By law, they can't tell anyone about what they find.
Go make an appointment with the doctor now, if for no other reason than to get some peace of mind.
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I dont have that much wrong. But i dont go a day with out getting told that i am 14 when i am really 19. I dont think i look like a 14 year old down there. I am 6" long and 5" around. I have no problems with it. Why dont you measure it. If you are more then 4" long and 3" around dont worrie you are doin fine. The average in the world is only 3" long. You dont need a doctor. You are your worst enemy right now. You are putting yourself down with out knowing what everyone else is like. You understand me. I use to be the same way until i stated to date. THen woman told me i was big. Man, you need to think yourself is big before anyone else will. I could please myself until I had sex. After i relized that i was fine and i could please woman i was able to get my self to cum. If you have sex just make sure you can please the girl before yourself. If you can do that, you will have a huge confidence boost. Trust me on that one. I had to learn the hard way. First time I had sex i couldnt keep the cum inside for more then 10 mins. Know i can get my girlfriend to cum twice in 10 mins. Not kidding. You just have to have confidence in yourself and everything will fall into place down there. The looking young think, well we just have to do deal with that. And shit if i am 40 and look 20 well i am fuckin going back to college if you know what i mean.lol
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I'm starting to get really concerned about my growth development. I've felt this way since about the age of 16 but I thought it would change. I look extremely young and a few times my voice has been passed off as a female
i wory about my growth too. had a chat wiht inliguble about it the other night.. i want to get taller and get some mucles. i'm not nowhere near being 21 but in april i will be 18. and it bugs me that i'm still a runt. short and skinny..stupid baby face and no facial hair. urgg!
Grrrrrrrr there are 14 year olds that look older thanme
Thats funny shit boy.
Im 34 now but I used to be you.
calm down and relax. I was always pissed about that and lworried when is it going to happen??
I wrestled in HIghschool, as a senior I wrestled at 112 pounds and about 5'6". I never shaved until I was in my early 20's and then it was a rare occasion when I NEEDED to shave. I didnt really take off til about 25, got a hairy chest and shaved daily to keep it clean. I keep a full beard now, used to be a goatee, but Im jjust to lazy to keep thta up so I swapped it for a beard. Huge scar on my chin to just under my lip from a motorcycle wreck on a drunken easter a few years ago keep me from going to no beard, but we covered tht already right? Im too lazy for that. besides I prefer teh way I look with a beard and my fiance has never complained about it of course she has never seen me clean shaven either but sees old pics ofme and says its not me.
Any ways, anyoe going thru that shit worring htat youll never change, STOP. You will sometime and you think that it cant come soon enough, it can and it will. Find things that your size and stature capitolize on. I wrestled and I got into pretty damned decent shape, I got ito climbing still being thin that has been a advantage.
The point is you cant change who you are or what you look like ro how tall you are and if you can grow a beard. and most of all none of it matters. Im 34 now have a beard, I shot up about a year after highschool to 5' 11". Im still thin but filled out decently so I dont look anorexic anymore. your time will come.
I started this off with a good laugh, it wasnt to laugh at you but because I remember being so concerned and after it happened it never occured to me again until I read you being so worried about it that you talked to people about it.
If this site existed then I would of done the smae damned thing, thats why I think its funny. Relax it happens at a different time for everyone and your time will come sooner or later, relax and let it happen.
If a shave, I still get that shit about how Ilook like im 17 I get ID'ed for smokes and I have 2 kids closer to 19 then I am. the looking young was a pain in the ass for so so long, now I figure its a boon and Ill be the next dick clark, its not good to look old, people pay millions of dollars to look younger, you and I dont have to.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
i don't look aneroxic..i'm skinny but not that skninny lol.. i have put on wight since last year ..even this summer. but still.
i just want to pinn ryan (my older bro) and put his ass in a head lock one day. then he'll stop agervating me.
lol i had to climb up on the barn roof cuz i was the lightist and smallist. lol i can bend like a pretzel lol and run.. i had to to run i have a older brother that like to give wedgies < sounds like our convosation the other day huh inliguble lol)
motorcycle wreck ........ u ride motorcycles? SWEET! i'm a mx nut.. like every one here knows LMAO..
i had a mean crash back b4 we moved to the coast.. got a mean scar on my leg from it.
I have several scars from several wrecks. Have a nice wreck you stop for a while its been a few years and now im looking ot buy a new bike, street bike, I stay off hte dirt anymore so much better to ride the freeways at night.
I had two older brothers one 10 yeares older and one 7, I took my share of shit growing up. got into boxing after high school for a while at a local gym got into climbing rock after that and spelunking. You want to bust your brother? got to learn to throw a left hook immidiatly after a left jab and snap the shoulder on both of them. Everyone watches the right hand, its the left that you have to look out for
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
Just be glad that y'all look young. I'm only 16 and I've got wrinkles and my face is already starting to become droopy, just like an old man's face. It sucks, so just be glad that you got to swim in the genepool of youth.
_"Bob is looking cool but he ain't smilin' no more!" _
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