Rough Sex

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Ok so I LOVE rough sex, I mean pin me down and fuck me sex. Is that normal? I like gentle sex too, its just that rough sex will turn me on in a heartbeat.

and? what, are you bragging, what is it your looking for in a reply? congradulations? permission? Volunteers?

If you actually read my post, I had asked if this was normal. Wow try to make sense of something before you get bent out of shape about it.

make no mistake, Im notbent out of shape over it, I like it rough myself. There is no fetish that you can have that is original, NONE. google anything you can think of and you will find some sex site dedicated to showing it to you for a fee.
Because I like it rough doesnt make it normal anymore then some guy that wants to get humped by a horse in a barn in seattle is normal. There is nothing wrong with liking anything but sex with a horse can kill you.

Anything that you like that doesn't cause you permanent damage, or harm anyone else, is "normal" and just fine.

Normal is a subjective word, just like this opinion is. Isn't life subjective?

Not all opinions are subjective (it's my opinion that 1+1=2), but "normal" certainly is, and it's subject to constant change.

Actually, the primary definition of opinion is a belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof. As such, wouldn't it be accurate to say they are subjective until they are proven, at which time they are no longer opinions but facts.In other words, 1+1=2 is not an opinion, but a fact.

Opinion: "A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof"-- Dictionary.comOpinons are subjective. Once something like 1+1=2 is substantiated it is factual.

Yeah...that's what I just said

OK, all opinions are subjective. That's a fact.

People like to do what makes them happy or gives them pleasure, i dont know what rough sex feels like or what it is for that matter being that i am a virgin. Hence, it's normal.

In these kind of forums, the answerr to most of people's questions is "yes, it's normal"

But you have nothing to lose if you ask, i do recomend looking at other threads first to see if you can find the answer.

**why was your reply directed at Damien, he didn't ask whether it was normal or not, the original poster who asked the question was screwmegood. **

When asked, "Is x normal?", most people will answer "yes" if it's something that they would do, or "no" if not. If you agree that it's OK to do whatever you want to do, as long is it doesn't damage you or cause harm to others, then the question of normalcy becomes irrelevant.

Things like unusual courage, or the talent to to paint a masterpiece, or the ability to consistently make3-point shots in basketball are not normal, but they're all good.

That's not always true Steve. At my age, boys are rude, closed minded, and super horny, I know this is normal for them, but I don’t do it, and I don’t see it as acceptable.

I'm not sure how old the original poster is, or how old you are, or what you interpret "rough sex" to mean. Replies having to do with sex are obviously age-appropriate. If someone who didn't disclose their age asked if it's OK to have sex twice in one night, I'd say "sure", but clearly not of they're ten years old.

rough sex is totally normal. There is only one problem though, if you are having rough sex with people that have never had it befor it might freak them out a bit so if you are going to have rough sex make sure your partner is ok with it

um, I like it. I am a guy and bi and my BF would come over when nobody's home. I would take off his pants and start sucking him, I would end up on the floor having him force it in. Yeah... I hope that's normal. I am too used to being top and just LOVE [edit]it when the guys are on the top of me (not me taking it) [/edit] and top on girls. Plus I watch myself, with the guys I have made sure they are clean. The one I didn't use a condom with was the one that had a blood donation like 2 days before and got the results for clean. Besides, when I did use one it turned out that it snapped and formed a little ring around the base of my penis. Good times...

You know, I'm there with ya', Oh my goodness, I think I like it a little more extreme.... ok so does anyone have a fantasy of being force, yeah i said it i know its not a very nice thing to do to a woman/man. and if it came down to it i dont know what i would do if i was in a situation if i was being forced... but i do like the thought of being well forced. and no i haven't ever been "Forced"... so is this crazy.. have i told anyone... only one person and we have been dating for over 2yrs and he does role play but and i like it but i don't get the adrenielline rush....

Some people are turned on by the idea of control/pain in sexual activity or relationships in general... Often this is a co-characteristic of a person with serious emotional/love/mental issues (BPD, love addictions..). Just something to think about. Enjoy yourself.