ok guys/girls. i have a problem....i do not know if i am in love anymore. i used to think i was. but now, i just dont know. i dont remember how it feels. how do you know if its love or not? i am so upset over this. maybe its because we are going through rough times, we never see eachother (me and my girlfriend) anymore. it used to be everyday now only once or twice a week. she thinks she loves me but idk. i am really upset, i wanna love again. im so confused.
You cant make yourself love someone and its not worth trying to force it. In my experience you can have a very fullfilling relationship without truly loving the other person so i suggest ya just layback and enjoy what ya got. Let feelings come naturally.
It sounds more like you want the euphoric feeling of the "new" relationship. That's not love, that's just excitement and lust over someone new. Love is the committed hard work of a relationship that remains after the euphoria of the new has long gone. But don't fret, the hard work of the relationship, that love requires, is far more rewarding and fulfilling in the long run.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.