One) I have been dating this guy for about 7 months now, not quite sure how he feels about it but for me its quite serious. But there is just a few things that bother me. He won't tell me he loves me, I guess it could be that maybe he doesn't but thats not how it feels. Alot of it I think is he is scared to say it. A year and a half ago his girlfriend said she wanted a break, then she started dating his best friend and married him. Now he will hardly open up to me. He says he's told me more than he's ever told anyone before (including his bestfriend Randy, not the same guy) but I know there is so much in his head that goes on and he won't let me in. I just don't know how the relationship can grow if he won't share how he's feeling with me (he's never happy, or sad; he's just seems like a stone except those small times that i can tell how he's feeling but he still won't say anything). I just get tired of waiting for him to show any emotion because he will try so hard not to. What should I do?
- I don't get off with this guy, actually I have never gotten off with any guy period. I wonder if its possible for me, if maybe the guys are inexperinced or if its me. The other day I was talking to two of good guy friends (one of which I dated and actually broke up with for my current bf) and it came up that I have never orgasmed and they both said that I should get someone that knows what they are doing. And of course they said that they could get me off and wouldn't stop trying till they did. Is it wrong of me to want to do that?
I really do love me bf but i get impatient easily. And if he wasnt great i wouldn't have stuck with him this long. I think part of it is I know how much he's been hurt before and part that if I leave, even if it was a break, he wouldn't let me come back. Help?