ok ive tried it but like is there anyway that you guys do it... im too squimish to just insert a finger so i stimulate the outside... what are some other ways to get plesure from, well... my ass hole lol
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Most of the pleasure for most guys in anal play is massaging the prostate gland which is easily reached through the rectum. Since your profile says you are female, you obviously don't have a prostate gland to massage, so you may not find anal play enjoyable. Some people, both guys and girls, find the anus itself is very sensitive and pleasurable to touch. I would just say try massaging it gently, and insert a few household items such as maybe a magic marker, carrot, candlestick, etc., if you don't want to use your finger. Use plenty of lube on the object and your anus, go slowly, and don't use anything sharp or that can break off inside. You'll just have to experiment and see if it does anything for you. Some find it enjoyable, others don't.
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Thanks for mentionning that not everyone likes anal sex for the prostate stimulation. I'm a guy and I sure don't. I mean, it does feel good to rub it, but in my case it pales in comparison to the pleasure I get from stimulating both my anus and my rectum.
Before I start, I'll offer a counterpart to all the people who feel like using any object they can get their hands on to insert in their ass. I hate using objects. You see, any object, unless they were specifically designed to hold heat, are going to feel really cold once inserted inside your body, and the cold touch alone is enough to make my anus clench in protest. In contrast, a finger is just as hot as the rest of the body, and it's much more comfortable to me.
Also, I don't like probing my insides blindly, and since the rectum isn't exactly known for its internal sensibility, you don't get to know what you're doing unless you push against the rectal wall and start feeling a bit of pressure. I hate that. In contrast, with a finger I get to feel exactly how everything is shaped and where I'm pushing so I feel safer.
Just little reminder for the beginners: feces typically remains in the lower colon unless you're about to have a bowel movement, at which time they actually enter the rectum. Therefore, the rectum is usually empty and relatively clean for that area. Either simply wash it outside and go with it while not giving a shit (oh, bad pun!), use some form of anal douche or enema, or use gloves or a condom to protect yourself. In any case, make sure to clean up real good afterward, wouldn't want any nasty infection now would we?
Okay, time for the main course. When masturbating anally, I basically use two 'anal moves'.
The first one is simply to finger my ass. I usually start slow and tenderly to get used to the feeling, then gradually increase the tempo as I also masturbate normally. I've personally noticed that stimulating my anus by itself isn't that pleasureable, although it does feels nice (unless I'm fingering really quickly, which can get so intense that I have to stop for a bit since the feeling gets too overwhelming). But when done in conjonction with other forms of sexual stimulation, it greatly amplifies them and can make me orgasm much quicker than normal.
The other form of stimulation I do is to massage my rectum with two or three fingers. I know it sounds weird, but let me explain. Basically, once I've loosened up and am comfortable with a few fingers fully inside my ass, I simply start moving them inside, sometimes by moving them around clockwise by rubbing the rectal wall, or sometimes just up and down and also bumping on the walls on each movement.
How does that feel like? Well, like I'm having a huge bowel movment. But let me explain before you turn away in disgust. The fact is, once you've managed to disassociate the feeling of having pressure in your ass from the unpleasantness of feces themselves, you can actually enjoy the feeling as it is very pleasurable (my own theory is that behaviours that are biologically necessary feel good to encourage the animal to do them, which is why eating, sex and taking a dump are actually either pleasurable or simply satisfying). When I do it constantly for like 15 minutes (before my hand starts getting sore) ti feels like I'm constantly having a huge bowel movement without shit ever coming out (be warned though that it is possible, from my own experience, that feces that are waiting in the lower colon could come out from the excessive stimulation; I know it would suck, but if you are not willing to accept the fact that anal sex can get a bit messy, frankly you're playing with the wrong hole).
All that I've written so far doesn't take in consideration the prostate, so you should experience similar feelings even if you're female. Hope that helps you in some way
Well, these guys sure know how to gice pleasure to themselves... I like it too. To me it doesn't matter if it's my fingers I 'm using or an object. The key to pleasure is lubrication, comfort, exploration and penetration. You go girl!
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