hi, i have a friend ive known for years, were always hanging out playing video games and hanging out with friends, but i always wanted to try mutual masturbation but i have no idea what he feel's upon the subject and im very nervous aobut jsut bringing it up and him jsut kinda looking at me funny and walking away....how can i find out his thoughts with out being forward and can know that he's not just putting on an act so i dont think he's gay...(im not gay, just curious)
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Mutual masturbation...please help...
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come on some one please reply...im really curious on how to go about this...
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Well I'm not a guy but, maybe if you just started talking about things that make you horny, girls, experiences, fantasies, etc. Or maybe watch porn. How many years have you known each other?
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i have no clue about how to instigate something like this, however, it could go horribly wrong and leave you without friends, so make sure you are sure.
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hello me and my friend have done that and it was good...how it accually started out was we used to talk about what we did and how it was and what turned us on and things like that...then one day he said to me...i wanna do it but not with my clothes on so i said im comfortable about that...this was the first time which was in the dark so i couldnt see anything but a black shadow...anyway about 2 weeks later i went and stayed at his house and we did it again but thiis time we could see each other...i am totally comforatble with doing it with him because he is my best friend who i can trust and im comfortable around him...so im just going to say go for it...its good to have a mate to do it with it isnt as boring expecially if u have porn to do it too! You can ask me questions about it if u want just personal message me!
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SORRY I MISUNDERSTOOD THE QUESTION...MY FRIEND AND I HAVE MASTERBATED NEXT TO EACH OTHER BUT HAVE NOT ACCUALLY TOUCHED EACH OTHER...SORRI ABOUT THE CONFUSTION...LOL
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Ive done it with a friend - It started with me asking questions about how he wanked off. Turned into a great discussion - He brought it up last time, then he asked me to show him a few things. I did the whole "I will if you will" type thing - it was great Good luck!
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Depends, if you've known him for like 3 or more years then it's likely that you could just whip it out right there and he might join you, then just say "i want to do you a favor" or something. Lol that's what I did.
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well the way it happened with me was actually kinda strange but me and a friend were playin with clothespins bettin each other to put em on our nipples so i decided to kick up a notch (.........BAAAAAAAM!.......)(i know im a dork get over it) and bet him 5 bucks i could put one on my genitals (dick or balls) so with that he had to see it from there ya we started talking about masturbating and stuff which grew to masturbating together to each other,sucking,and anal even masturbation itself with a friend is good enough,so you could try something like that.(also considering if your nething like me when you put like 4 clothespins on your dick and ballsac you'll get a RAGING boner and have to masturbate) but you should check if hes actually comfortable with that kinda thing even masturbation alone,and in that case you could find a regular movie or if he wants to porn and when the masturbating topic comes out start talkin about it
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yeah ive always wanted to but i only have 1 friend that wood get any where near actually jacking me off. but all weve ever acyually done is like "massage" each others balls. and oh theres 1 prob he lives like 2 hours away. and im not gay.
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i not gay and have done this why a pal he wanted me to "teach" him how to masturbation and well.... long story PM me for the full thing
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BTW! i already made a board on this plz don't make too many already made boards
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You made a board? What are you talking about?
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He means a thread.
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just bring up stuff that would make both of u horny and then say"why do guy feel ashamed of someone seeing their stuff" and if he responds without saying "why do u want to kno" then say "im not insecure with my size" and if he says me neither u can either wait and let him think and bring it up another time or just say that u would sho ne1 because ur not afraid. and if he says something like "really'' u could say yea watch and then just whip it out if u want. it worked for me. then after that he might be compelled to take his out as well. then go from there.it worked for me on three different occasions. just try it.
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yes a theard!
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ok me and my friend were like sittin around and i was like "truth or dare" and then he looked at me i repeated the question he said "dare" so i dared him something simple then an half hour hour later we did harder stuff and we said we had to see to believe so then after that we just were comfortable with seeing each others junk or touching or seeing eachother beat off, so now we kinda do it when ever he sleeps over or i sleep over there. IM NOT GAY THOUGH im jusst open i guess, hes my real good friend.
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you could put a porn movie in a different case and ask if he wnats to watch a movie, then put in the porn. once you see what it is, appoligise and then ask if he minds if you masturbate. he might join in.
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way it happened with me and my friend, we were watching a movie, and there was a part in it that made us both kind of horny, i think a lady lost her dress or something, i dont remember (this being like 8 years ago) anyway, we watched that part over a few times, and i dont think either of us planned this or anything but we ended up comparing boner sizes thru our pants. the rest just played out, comparing thru pants, comparing w/o pants, then the whole "have you ever" segway into the actual masturbation (on separate couches i might add). thats how i remember it, wasnt planned at all i am pretty sure, at least not on my end.point being, you could put in a movie, not even necessarily a porn, but one that might have female nudity or a sex scene or something, and go from there......
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if you time it right, you could pause the movie in "the tuxedo" just as the chick bends over to "look in her purse", go get some water or something, not noticing where you stopped it, and when you get back, "notice" and mention something and then take it from there. i can be sneaky when i really want to be!
