how is the pain whin the girl loss his virgin (hyman), i have virgin gf and she scare from that very much, she said" if she loss his vigrin she feel big pain in his vagina and cannt do sex for 2 weeks or more, is that true, and whats the degree of the pain the girl feel?
First time pain
it really depends from girl to girl - some have already broken their hymen before they have had sex
sex for me first time - wasnt so painful, slightly uncomfortable but not too bad - i guess it was because i had already broken my hymen to some degree before hand.
your girl wont experience pain for 2 weeks after however, it isnt that bad! ....maybe she's just not ready for sex, maybe wait a while- have you guys talked about this?
thanx for ur answer, i wait the other opinion about my qus., but what u mean by "broken my hymen to some degree before hand" plz
hi, know one have a idea about that plz
Sometimes the hymen breaks a little more each time not just all at once. The hymen can also break while doing activities other than sex, such as bike riding.
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I would really talk with your girl friend. It sounds to me like she may not really be ready to have sexual intercourse yet. You may need to wait longer.
Regarding the interval of first time. No, she will not have to wait for 2 weeks after the first time. For many people the first time they have sex is on their wedding night and then they continue through the rest of their honeymoon and first year of marriage, generally having sex whenever they get a chance. At least once a day.
Yes, she may experience some pain (and possibly some bleeding). She also may be a little sore for a day or two afterwards. But the pain is very seldom really severe or cause a need for a lengthy recovery.
In my case my wife and I had sex first the night we were married. There was some blood and she was a slight bit sore. However, we had sex 3 or 4 times each of the next 2 days that we spent on our honeymoon. Went swimming, ice skating, would have gone horse back riding, out to dinner, to a movie, etc. We both enjoyed everything very much. She was not uncomfortable. She even has advised my daughters as they approached their weddings that it wasn't as painful as cramps that she had at times during her periods.
Hope that helps. But still do not pressure her just because you want sex or you think everyone else is doing it so you have too. You both need to be comfortable and ready. If your not, it is not going to be as great an experience as it could be.
I have been married almost 30 years and I can still remember it like it was yesterday.