Ok, so I like this girl, and of course, all of these topics start out like this, haha. Well, she seems to like me. We text message each other pretty much everyday, we've talked about our interests in the opposite sex, we've made pet names for each other (well, you know, inside-joke nicknames), we talk constantly on myspace, and from her attitude, she seems to really like me.
Now, she lives in another city from me, though not far. I've only actually met her up front once (we met over myspace/AIM), but we didn't really hang out. And so, we haven't much of a chance to actually hang out with each other, though we are planning loads of crap to do when we actually do. She likes it when guys get to know her first before asking her out first (so they look at the personality, not the looks). I've told her that I'm one of those guys and stuff. Well, my plan is that I want to ask her out when we hang out, but something always gets in the way of our hanging out. Asking her out over the phone is lame, and so is IM. Jeez! Everytime I think of being with her, my pulse gets faster, and I think about her a lot. It'd be great to just tell her how I feel, but it seems that I can't unless I see her in person.
So, how much wait do you think she could take before she loses interest? And is it really a lot more effective in person?