Anal

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My BF really REALLY like anal. I HATE it lol. it feels like i gotta poop or something. Is there any way to enjoy it more. We use lube and stuff. so i dont know

Well, as a guy, I can only speak of fingering myself, but that 'pooping' feeling *is* pretty much why I enjoy anal so much. It's hard to explain, but I'll try to give you my take on it. Basically, things that are necessary to stay healthy/alive feel good, like eating, having sex, and pissing/pooping. For the last two, you might not realize it, but you must admit that the relief it gives feel good. Well, in my case, once I was able to separate the feeling from the disgust I feel about feces and the feeling got really enjoyable. When I'm fingering myself intensely, it feels like I'm having a huge bowel movement over and over. And yeah, I enjoy that a *lot*.

As for what you and your boyfriend are doing, it's possible you're doing it too mechanically. I mean, has he ever took the time to just caress your anus delicately? To slowly push a finger inside, allowing you to fully appreciate the strange sensations it gives you? I'm asking because for most young people, sex is often all about inserting Tab A into Slot B, which is sad because it doesn't take into account all the sensual pleasure people can have if they only took their time and explored/enjoyed every feeling they could. I know it took me some time to fully appreciate anal masturbation and find exactly how I liked it.

Yeah we are young. im 20 he's 19 but we live alone and when we have sex it is sensual, it may just be me. i cant the the feeling out of my head that he is doing me in the butt.lol. I think its an exit and should stay that way. oh well. I will try and relax more. thanks alot

it is all in your mind, it can be changed with your thought, but some people just aren't into anal, so if you really feel uncomfortable with it, let him know, and i'm sure he'll be understanding. I myself love anal, have since my frist time, giving and recieving

I myself love anal, have since my frist time, giving and recieving And you're coming to Ohio when?? LOL JK!!I agree though, either you like Anal or you don't. Just express this with your BF. You can't truly force yourself to do something you just don't feel comfortable doing, and you're BF shouldn't expect you too.

once i stuck a clean glass coke bottle up my butt and it really hurt, now i only stroke my butthole when i masterbate

In all honesty, not everyone enjoys anal, and you can't force yourself to like it, if it does nothing for you. So don't beat yourself up about it. If you're lubing and all and it's still ick, then most likely it won't turn wow. And I suggest you consult some of the women on girlstalkaboutitall.com for further points of view and suggestions

theres one small diff between guys and girls taking anal, it's called a prostate. Also known as the male G spot.

it's called a prostateExactly and if stroked just right it feels awesome!