People are starting to think I'm gay

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Can you believe this? Just because: I'm 16. Never kissed a girl ( thats right.. havn't had first kiss yet ) .. I don't like lesbian porn... or seeing lesbians doing there 'thing'.. ( I find it dirty.. no offense to any homosexuals here.. Just I don't like it .. I dont really care to see hetrosexuals making out either in public ) I don't like the word 'boobs' or 'tits' I think it just sounds wrong.. THERE BREASTS not boobs or tits.. same goes for a penis.. its a PENIS.. not dick ( name) or a cock ( chicken ) and PENIS.... and I have never had a GF... What can I do? Just ignore it? I don't think I'm gay ( I would know right? ) I have a girl I would like to kiss.. but she thinks it would make our friendship akwards.. and I was cool with it... Anyone else ever have iths problem.. Also.. Am I the only male who doesn't like lesbians..?

Personally i'm not a fan of porn etc... Lesbian stuff is nice 'n' all but personally its better in the flesh but i don't have any porn and i don't find it a turn on.Just because your inexperianced doesn't mean your gay it just means your inexperianced. At the end of the day if people haven't seen you goin for women and haven't seen you goin for blokes either they don't actually know.There just winding you up coz its easy to mock people in your position. Just joke about it, don't take it too seriously, the'll grow up one day.

yo, people always make remarks about my mannerisms and stuff like that.the fact that i dress well,the way i hold a cigarette, :laughing:.i thinkit's hilarious!!
fuck a lot of people have questioned my sexuality.
i dont give a shit.like i said i thinkit's funny.
i havent kissed a woman in over 5 years :frowning:,haha.
but i'm not gay.just a lil different,or a lot.
i'm sensitive and all,dont like giving my heart out to many people,they can crush it,that would be tragic,i only have one heart.
i'm beginning to sound gay,maybe.
but that is me,and i am not going to fit into some stupid social convention of proving my heteroness and all that crap.
im blabbing here.better go to sleep.
dont give a rats ass fabmx.
btw if i was gay,i wouldnt care,my happiness is my concern,not that of the masses running around poking their noses into peeps business and all.
so i am me,and you are u.
be thankful 4 that i guess,hehe :grin:.
goodnight!

In reply to: i'm sensitive and all,dont like giving my heart out to many people,they can crush it,that would be tragic Me too... I have been kinda looking for a girl.. But thats one thing I seriously worry about.. I dont want to give my all and have it end up screwing me... Your right.. Screw everyone else.. As long as no guys hit on me.. I will be 100% fine

porn scares me. nope don't like it. does that mean i'm gay... Nooooooo
i been called gay. i been called alot of things (even on this site) but i know what I am and who I am and that's all that matters to me! so NO your not the only male that don't like lesbian porn.

Bud, a lot of people struggle with asking themselves questions like that everyday, and not everyone is in to the “porn thing”.You are who you are, don’t put a label on yourself just because people in society likes and to put people in categories. Your still “young” and trying to find your place in this world, but don’t go and start dictating to yourself that you need to “fit in” to please other people.My personal choice at the moment is I like being alone (but not lonely), while I’ve been ill over the last few months people thought it was because I was trying to come to terms with my sexuality (why on earth people thought I was gay I don’t know!), but I’ve made my choice at this moment on what my current needs are.Bud, as I said above and I’m sure others here will say the same, you are who you are, and be who you are.

hey diver, hope you get better soon man!

I've had a g/f. I've kissed. I hate lesbian porn. I think it's dirty too. It doesn't arouse me because I'M not getting the attention, the damn other girl is. I'm a little more anti-homosexual than most people (dunno why), I guess that's why. Whenever I hear the word "boobs" I think of some immature little pervert. Whenever I hear "tits" I think of a PREPPY immature little pervert. When I hear breasts, I think of a more mature person overall. I say "dick" although I still think "penis" is more acceptable to me.

You're not gay, you're just different than most guys. I dated a guy who didnt like lesbians... what most guys dont realize is, lesbians want nothing to do with a guy and their penis, so guys have no chance. And maybe you're just waiting to find a girl that you are comfortable enough to kiss. It's no problem, but I once made the mistake of not kissing my boyfriend at all, and refused the whole 3 months and he left me, but it's ok, cuz he's a jerk... so if ppl call u gay for sum reason, just be happy you have enough respect for yourself to where u dont go around kissing everyone and constantly watching porn! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

lol, ppl i know are starting to think im gay, different reason tho, its cuz i still like that friend of mine with the older boyfriend...2 girls have asked [u]me[/u] out since then, which saying no to very pretty girls...kinda makes ppl wonder...now to your problem, u might be gay, who knows, do u like women?... if yes, then im gonna say ur not gay...doesnt matter how u feel about lesbians...which i dont find too great either...i mean y would u like girls having sex with eachother instead of u?...but dont listen to what ppl say about u...if ur gay or straight...really doesnt matter...not their business

just ignore them they're not worth it. Bsides i get called gay all the time as long as u know ur not i suppose that's all that matters. hope this helps bye!!! :grin: :wink:

Dude don't worry I got my first serious kiss just this year too and I don't regularly have a gf either just show everyone your way of showing that your not gay. I used to get called gay when I was in 6th grade so you know what I did? I built muscle and got a bad attitude and got very aggressive and since then noone calls me gay anymore( partialy because I almost beat the crap out of the bullies that teased me) Oh and don't worry about lesbians, most lesbian porn sites exagerate. I know some lesbians and I wouldn't want to watch them "get it on" either.

wow dude...man i've always wanted to do that to people that just annoy me...