Okay well I am a virgin at the current time and I was thinking. When guys masterbate, or when I masterbate my hand goes up and down pretty fast but from what i have seen in moves and things when people have sex the in and out motion is not nearly as fast. I have tried to masterbate slowly but I just get bored and stop becuase it takes to long to cum. I am afraid that when it comes time for me to have sex, will I cum and what makes me more nervous is that if I lose my virginity to my girlfriend who is also a vrigin she will want me to go slower, will I be able to cum for my first time?
Will i cum, when its time
dude i promise you there is nothing to worry about. I had the same worries and it all worked out fine
Sex feels waaaaaaaaaayyyyyy different than masturbation...it's a whole new sensation at a whole new level. A lot of guys have trouble lasting the first time! Whne the times comes, you will see that it's not comparable to jacking off, and yes, you probably will be able to cum :smile:.
She gasped and she sighed and she called my name.
And do go slow. It takes girls a lot longer than guys.