Falling for best friend

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hiok so i think im falling for my best friend but heres the problem, a few months ago he told me he liked me and i turned him down (nicely) because at the time i didnt like him in that way but recently he has been going out with this girl and they geting pretty serious so i hardly get to see him and because of this ive reliszed how much i like him. so do i tell him this and hope he still likes me, hope he splits up with his girlfriend or move on??

Well personally i think you need to back off, you turned him down, and now you want him when hes taken, tough. Sit back and keep out of their relationship, and maybe if they split up then you can tell him how you feel.

I think the fact that he's going out with someone else has a lot to do with your sudden attraction to him. Leave him alone. As Angel said, if he breaks up, give it a shot, if you're still attracted to him at that time.

I agree... Leave them alone... You had your chance and turned him down…..You should still be there to lend a friendly shoulder for him when he needs a friend.Sometimes opportunity knocks twice and if it does, let him know how you feel at that point... If it was meant to happen it will….Fate is very strong.

I have to agree..let them be. You had your chance.

You also have to ask yourself.. are you wanting him because you now cannot have him or do you really like him? I have been in the shoes before where a friend said they liked me and I turned them down, and once they got into a relationship I thought I wanted him. In reality it was just the fact I could no longer have them anymore. Make sure you sort out your TRUE feelings.

I can add nothing more than another voice reaffirming whats already been stated. Stay out of their relationship.

i disagree... think hard if you really like this guy or not, and if the answer is yes, go for it, at least bring it up to him... some things in life are worth going for, and a lost love can linger for years, sometimes a lifetime... it's best not to have any regrets or what ifs, you guys could be meant for each other... if you truly love this guy, it'll be worth it, despite the negative affects it could have with the other girl... you only live once, and you can't turn back time!

So true love suddenly blooms when the guy starts going out with another girl? I don't think so.How about if he got married, and this girl suddenly started jonesing for the guy. Would it be OK if she went ahead and tried to break up the marriage? Is there any line that shouldn't be crossed in the pursuit of infatuation (which is not the same thing as love)?

oh yeah totally forget how the other girl might feel right? Besides she's only a human with feelings so who cares. Please...

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