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  • hmm hard for me to say
    i kinda know what you mean, i think when looking to the past, youre never quite sure what happened, your mind goes over it so many times, to the point where it is able to distort the real thing. you really need to talk to this whith a person you trust, trsut me, it will just get worse if you keep it bottled up in your mind like that, because after a while your mind gets so confused it doesnt know what to think. this doesnt make you a bad person, when put through such a traumatic situation like that its natural to worry and think it over, my best advice is to talk it over and over.

  • i already pressed charges when i was seven

  • no... i remember everything.. i dont wanna... but it never leaves... i havent talked to a shrink yet because like in someone elses post.. i dont no how to tell my parents i need one

  • If your parents know this went on, as they must have to press charges, then they will totally know where you are coming from if you tell them you need to speak to a councillor etc.........they may even be expecting it at some stage, i know i would be if it happened to one of my children. </font color>

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  • im not trying to make excuses or anything but my mom was a young mom when it happened to me and she prolly thinks i forgot.. plus we can't afford one

  • As a mother of 3, i know i would NEVER forget if something like that happened to one of my children, i might want to forget, but i know i never would.
    And as for affording it, where in the world do you live? A lot of times there are helplines etc set up for victims of sexual abuse etc I would imagine you would be able to get councilling through them, if not councilling, at least be able to talk to someone whos been/knows what you are going through. </font color>

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  • where could i find a number for a help line like that.. and do they charge?

  • where about in the world are you, UK, US, ???? </font color>

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  • us.....wisconsin

  • **Well i live in the UK, so i can't personally help as in the numbers you need..........tho i would suggest having a look online for helplines, helpgroups etc, they will probably have email facilities and contact numbers listed.......what about your doctor, they should have names and contact details of groups set up to help............... and im sure some of the guys from over there will be able to point you in the right direction....... **

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  • I Googled rape hotline, and I found:

    RINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)

    The Rape Crisis Center for Children and Adults

    I then Googled rape hotline wisconsin and found a list of local numbers.

    Please check it out.

    <i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK

  • **I also found winconsin community mental health counceling centres
    ** here

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  • will those rape hotlines get mad at me because i wasnt actually raped, just molested?

  • No! Go call.

    <i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK

  • but what if my dad picks up the phone or something.. what if someone calls on the other line... i wish i had like a deserted building or something

  • So What, WHy would your dad care you need help he wont get mad that your getting yourself help. As for if soemone calls on the other line, they cant call back later. Why are you making excuses to not get help?

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