I've recently had 2 dreams regarding my best friend. The 1st dream we were on his bed and he was jerking me off and then i jerked him off. Once that was over he gave me oral and then i woke up. The 2nd dream involved the same friend, only this time we were in a hotel and i was showering and just as i was about to turn the water off he shower curtain pulled and he was standing there naked with a hard on. He got in and i started jerking him off standing infront of me. He came on my chest. I washed it off and got out to dry while he finished his shower. I then woke up.I have asked my friend if he would be interested in mutual masturbation and he refused. So why the dreams?? any ideas???
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Dreams about masturbating with friends
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I do think its natural for someone to think about doing things with thier friends.. I"m pretty sure most of us have done it at one point in time. I wouldn't worry about it - unless you truly want to do it
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Thanks dude!! I did tell my friend about the dreams, coz we can talk about anything, and he says it doesn't worry him. But sometimes i think it does.
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Like Jet said, just don't worry about it and just try to forget about the dreams. As for the whole worrying thing, he'll probably grow out of it or forget about it in a couple of years. That's how it was with my friend after I told him that I had a crush on him. Now he's in a hugging phase and even wants me to hug him, but I gladly refuse.
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Thanx for the kind words. My friend is a pretty cool guy and if it was anyone of my other friends it wouldnt worry what they think (not that i would tell them), but this is my best friend and i really only told him coz he REALLY wanted to know. He said it doesn't worry him coz he knows it WONT happen. Thats cool i guess.
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Personally, I think this is pretty normal. You fantasize about having sex with someone you are truely close to emotionally. Your comfortable with your friend so your mind creates a comfortabale fantasy for you to enjoy while your sleeping. No harm, no foul. Good you can talk about it with your friend.
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Yeah, my friend is understanding which is cool. That's why i can tell him these sorts of things. He just laughs about it and has told me if i have anymore dreams(god forbid) that he wants me to tell him. Hehe!!
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that's cool that your friend is understanding and stuff... but yeah i think it's just normal fantasies that you're having, doesnt mean you're gay/bi/straight or whatever, just that you're horny
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u didn't say ur age....