I'm wondering if my co-worker is gay or bi. Here's part of the story. I am gay and and i'm not out. If I haven't told u in person then u would be cluess which is the case at work. well, i'm attacted to the guy. We've worked together for over a year now. I've raised my eyebrow but he just said what's up? well lately, i asked for his # b/c he was supposed to call me to watch the nfl playoffs which he didn't. but that monday after the game he gave me his # afer i asked. then i sent him a text(via phone) and said that i've been trying to get some qt(quality time) for the longest w/him and asked him if he chatted online or not. he didn't reply that day. so the next day after work i call him and he said that he didn't use messenger or online stuff to talk. I asked him what he was up to and he said what he was about to do watch tv and asked me. Well i don't mean to make this long, but it's hard to explain. we pass out paper all the time and i try to flirt w/him by passing out papers in his cubicle...then shortly after that now he's doing the same. what can i do to confirm that he's interested w/o making a fool of myself over the phone? oh ya...did i mention once i asked to ride w/him to a business meeting and he was out of case...and once me him and 2 other friends went to a b-ball game. me and him were in the back seat together talking about girls and stuff. and he asked me why i hadn't talked to a hot girl at work. then i returned the question to him b/c he said py is py...and i was like u trained w/her when u first got the job and i used his words against him py is py and he just laughed...and i gave him the look like ya right...HELP HELP HELP!!!
Is my co-worker gay or bi?
I replied to this in the Relationship section... please try and only post a topic once so not to get people confused. Plus it helps to consolidate responses in the same place. :grin:
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Sounds like a straight guy to me.
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