through my whole life and highschool experience i have been very attracted to girls. I used to get erections from the smallest things, just being around girls i thought were hot. Now i have been having trouble with my girlfriend and have found it more difficult to get hard while thinking about her and other hot girls. I dont know why but i am beginning to think its being gay which i dont want at all. But i tried looking at different pictures of guys and girls. When i looked at the girls i got some response, but i dont no if its just because im so stressed and trying to force myself. When i looked at the guys i got this uncomfortable feeling in my stomach which i didnt know what it meant. I really want things to be like they used to and get hard thinking about girls like nothing. I am really stressed out right now and this is hurting my schoolwork too. I am trying to figure this out. Please help me think of something. I want to be straight really bad and i dont know why im even thinking im gay. I seem to be thinking about guys i see and be like.. am i attracted to him.. and try to reassure myself im not.. and i try to see if i get like any sensation or erection thinking about guys and i dont really, just kind of an uncomfortable feeling. I really want to think im just overthinking this and that this will pass soon. Thanks for the help AAGGGGH i want things to just be normal again
I dont think im gay AHH
It sounds to me like your hormone levels are just playing tricks on you. Not to mention Stress has a horrible affect on your body so if your under a lot of stress, that oculd be affecting your erections. You should even out with your erections as you get older. as for being gay, I doubt it.
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Welcome to A2a, carolinafball.
I think deep down everyone can get sexual stimulation either way, but usually parts of it are more or less suppressed. That's why normally straight guys can get hard experimenting with other guys in their teens, or why normally straight guys will have gay sex if there are no women around for a long time, as in prisons.
There's nothing really in what you've said so far that suggests you are in fact gay. It's quite common to have problems getting hard that have nothing to do with your sexuality. As we get older we get a bit less horny, and also we become more likely to get tired and weighed down with stress, and when we're tired and stressed the thing just doesn't work as well. It sounds like that may have happened to you, and you've jumped to the conclusion that you might be gay, which you fear; and that's made you a lot more anxious and stressed, which makes it harder to get it up.
That uncomfortable feeling in your stomach may just be a result of stress.
Even if it turns out you are in fact a little bit bi, I don't think that's unusual, as I explained above; and there's no need to do anything about it. There are lots of guys around who are a little bit bi but choose not to do anything with it.
alright thanks.. i dont know theres this feeling in my stomach thats just really uncomfortable that makes me think i might be. And the more i think about it the worse things get.
It's significant, I think, that while you're having trouble getting it up for girls, you're not gettuing it up for guys at all. That makes me think that it's stress and anxiety that is causing the problems with girls.
yeah, i can get it up and finish while im thinking about girls, just not without physical stiumulation.. when i think about the guys i get this uncomfortable feeling down there, but its not like getting an erection its just uncomfortable feeling. I am pretty confident i am straight, which i why i just dont know why i am trying prove wether the guys i see do anything for me.. because i know i am not interested in them, but it seems like my mind is playing games... sry if that didnt make sense, but i dont know why my brain is doin this