So my boyfriend loves to eat me out, but it doesnt do anything for me. . . and sometimes its like he rubs or licks the clit too hard and its not enjoyable. . . do other women just not get off from oral or is it my boyfriend?
Getting eatin out
I absolutely adore it when my husband goes down on me it drives me wild.
Try talking to your boyfriend , and tell him what you enjoy if he does something that you like tell him that it feels really good. If he is being a little rough either tell him.
One thing that my Husban used to do is that he would put his hands over mine or mine over his when he or i (depending) would pleasure ourselves.
Not all women get off from oral. That's why not all moves work on all women. The only way to make it more enjoyable for you, is to talk to him. Tell him not to do it so hard or what feels good for you.
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tell him to pretend he's licking an ice cream cone..
No sexual act is done alone. Tell him what you want him to do. If he's doing it too strong then correct him till he has it right. The worst thing you can do is lay there expecting him to know if he's doing something wrong.
And to those who may want to correct me on masturbation, that's not alone either.. You're correcting yourself if you're doing something wrong So you're not alone cause it's you with you :P
my girlfriend thinks it's gross to begin with so even if I did go down on her, she probably wouldn't enjoy it.
Originally Posted By: goooooooglemy girlfriend thinks it's gross to begin with so even if I did go down on her, she probably wouldn't enjoy it.
My gf used to be the same way, wondering why I'd ever want to put my mouth down there. Now she drools over the aspect. Nothing has changed. She's never even experienced it yet (as I've said before, 3,000 miles away).
For my gf, it was just seeing it in a different light. I suggest your gf not knock it till she tries it. Not every woman enjoys oral, but I don't think a woman exists who can't get *something* out of it if it's done right. I would just tell her to close her eyes, relax and not think about it while you give it a whirl. When her motor gets running she can start making suggestions on where she wants you to go.
Originally Posted By: rune-san
My gf used to be the same way, wondering why I'd ever want to put my mouth down there. Now she drools over the aspect.
what about the smell down there?
IF she stinks then I wouldnt, but if its just that sorta musty sex smell, I like that.
It also carries a nice tangy sorta taste to it. The difference between being good at eating her out and just going through the motions for her sake is all in if you enjoy doing it.
I do enjoy it, Id be content as hell to eat her snatch for an hour.
Now I do it till she pulls me off her and begs for me to fuck her.
the saying is if you get past the smell, you got it licked!
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
What about it? If she's clean then there's no problem.
i LOOVVVEEE my guy to eat me...he is soooo good. at first he was alittle rough but i coached him and now its perfect. try showing him where and how hard to lick, if your both active in it then it will be great for both.
I may get over zealous at times, when I was younger. I think the key is to gently and quietly tell him where to lick and how to lick. As he's doing it, reassure him with your moans and body movements. He should be able to get the picture when you do that.