my boyfriend and i were making out and decided to move things along. i started giving him head and after a few minutes he physically stopped me and said that he didnt want to cum yet. i thought he meant at that time, but we made out some more and then went to sleep. i dont wanna bring it up with him because i dont want to make him feel akward or anything. i dunno, should i bring it up? how?
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He didnt want to cum! what?
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wait, whats your problem/question with it?
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**Do you feel that if he doesn't cum, he hasn't enjoyed himself????
This might have been a one time thing, so don't worry about it, however, if it becomes all the time, and only if it bothers you, then sit and talk it through with him. ** -
don't worry so much about, maybe he's not wanting to rush thing, just take it slow and enjoy what you do have
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The "not rush things" thing is a lil odd in thsi respect. I mean he's having his cock sucked, whether he then cum's or not makes little difference to the pace of the relationship...that would be like "hey stick you cock in me for four seconds and tommorow we'll amke it 6"
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I wouldn't stress to much about it. There are times I don't want to cum either, because normally I want to please the person I am with and not worried about pleasing myself.
Also maybe he didn't want to rush things and wait for a good/special time to release with you.
As peopel know us guys are weird lol.
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"Also maybe he didn't want to rush things and wait for a good/special time to release with you."I still dont get the "rush things" thing cos he's already having his cock sucked, but hey the gay man speaks, he prob understands better than me :nods:
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>but hey the gay man speaks, he prob understands better than me :nods:
ROFL!! Well I dunno about all that LoL.. but I can see how a guy might want to wait for a special moment. Might sound crazy but I can remember the feelings.
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I can understand waiting for special moment to get sucked or to get sexual in the first place, but waiting a special moment to cum seems odd to me cos that just means you've done half a job. Sexual activity has been special to me, but the act of cumming itself never struck me as a particularly special thing to give special thought to. You get me?
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yeah I know what you mean. but there is something special about orgasming. It's hard to explain. There is something very emotional about it.esp if it's the first time.
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It was never very special for me. But we are all different.
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has he cum with you before?
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no, that was our first time doing anything other than making out.thanks everyone for your respones
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he probably just wants to wait, its not a big deal. he may have thought you guys were moving to fast.
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not trying to sound mean at all, but it sounds like he didnt like it.Were u sure not to use teeth? oh and even if it wasnt perfect don't feel bad. I still don't like doing it bc im afraid i suck at it, not to mention the taste. gag