oh k so im a 20 yr old male with a uncircumsized penis my problem is this! I lost my virginity when i was 18 (2 yrs ago) and since then have only had 4 partners and sex about about 6 times up until new years. well just recently about a month ago i started dating this new girlfriend, now its been about 7 / 8 months since i've last had sex and we have been having sex for the past couple weeks now (unprotected , she's on the pill and im playing it safe and not cumming in her pussy) well tonight while we were having sex we changed positions from doggy style to her wanting to take charge and ride me as i was inserting my penis into her she dropped down on it a bit hard and i think tore my frenulum it started to bleed and i noticed it was bleeding good (before i could penetrate her) so i stopped cleaned up and eventually got the bleeding to stop.. i cleaned it up with a shower and some hydrogen peroxide and is fine now... what would be the cause of that? not stretching it? could no sex for 8 months be the cause of it? and is this in anyway dangerous to either one of us? how long before were having sex again? I'd hate for it to start bleeding again .. please help me! </font color>
HELP PLEASE! Torn Frenulum
A frenulum that's a bit short can tear. It would have been because the foreskin was pulled down a bit hard, nothing to do with eight months without sex. You've done the right thing cleaning up with mild disinfectant, and all you have to do is wait for it to heal. Once it's healed properly it will probably be a bit longer and less likely to tear again.
hi this is my first post... anyways, about two months ago, i was having sex and my frenulum ripped. after about a week it healed, and when i tried to have sex again it tore again. now, just last week, it tore a third time while i was masturbating, and i am concerned. tearing doesnt seem normal, and its very painful. i have not had any problems with it for the past 4 years, until just recently ... anybody have any advice on how to stop it from tearing??
I think at this point a urologist should look at it. It seems it hasn't healed the right way, and some surgical tidying up might help.
I had the same problem my first time having sex. My frenulum completely tore and there was alot of pain and bleeding.
Since then I have had severe lack of sensation during intercourse. I just don't feel much. Does anyone have this experience? It has been 15 years and I have never enjoyed intercourse. It's causing serious issues in my current relationship since we are trying to get pregnant and I have never been able to ejaculate through intercourse.
Penus size should not be an issue since I am about 6" fully erect. Any advice would be helpful.
hmm...well my boyfriend suggested that if you want to get her pregnant, but you cant ejaculate through intercourse,there is always artificial insemination. i mean...you could use your sperm. i really dont know if you thought of that or not. but if you REALLY want a child,but cant ejaculate, then my best bet is to go to a doctor for a check up,and try the artificial insemination good luck XOx </font color>
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