I have some questions for you, i hope you can answer them.
First of all I am with a girl who's very special to me (i know you all probably hear this many times a day, but it's true) We are in a very stable relationship. We also share a very healthy sexual relationship.
Anyway we're very open to eachother about many things, but... I need some advice with a couple of topics.
Firstly, i have an uncircumcised penis. While my girlfriend goes "down" on me I am unable to cum. Sometimes this seems as though it makes her very.... angry. She says that she's not but i know where she's coming from. She wants to make me happy.
I have been in a couple of relationships and they have also never been able to make me cum either. I don't know if it's the fear of me cumming inside her mouth and making her take a quick dart to the bathroom, or gaging, punking.... i think you know where i'm coming from? No pun intended. Can anyone recommened anything there?
Second. I LOVE to go down on her. I have heard that not many guys like to do this. I love to do this to my girlfriend, i wish i could stay home from work and just go down on her all day. She loves it too!
Anyway... While I am going down on her I like to use my hands. I move them all over her body, down her legs and especially tease her with my fingers. One day I decided that I would move down and rub on her anus, she started to moan a little. I was kind of scared. ( i was one of those people that was like, Ew, that's her butt hole") but she is a VERY clean girl indeed. After a couple of times i started to move my tongue down and i started to stimulate her anus with my tongue... she moved her hands down and kept my head there. I knew that she liked it. The next time i knew that she'd wash in that area (i knew that she did before, but she probably washed there many times for this time) anyway, i used my finger, got it wet and put it about 1/4 of an inch inside of her anus and she moved her hips down so my finger went nearly all the way in... she moaned with pleasure! she loves it when i do that.
I ask her all the time if she likes it and she says she loves it. Whenever i go to lick or put my hands there i ALWAYS ask if it's ok.
My question is that I would like to go further with this and possibly have anal intercourse with her... baring in mind that we are quiet open. but on the odd occasion we get a little shy...
Does anyone have any suggestions of a conversation starter, or a good way to ask her if we can possibly have anal intercourse. I am kind of stuck in a ruck on this one. I hope someone can help.
I know the obvious things, like to get lube... the thing is, should we go to the local drug store together and get this and experiment together. I know about going slow and stuff like that.
I just want to ask her if she should try it, i just don't know how to ask.
I hope someone and answer both of my questions.
Any advice is appreciated!
A rather long question... actually 2 questions.
About the first question, it's not unusual for guys not to cum easily from being given head. You're in plenty of company.