My husband keeps promising me we'll have more sex but it isn't getting any better. Since we moved to AZ I get it like 2 x a week. Before we moved I got it 2x a day. Help me out guys what gives?
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Getting a little annoyed
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ya cant force a guy to fuck.I think you need to ask him why the sex has been reduced and as him how it can be remedied. Just asking for more sex will not make him horny, indeed it will put him under pressure, damging his libido. This is soemthing that must be tackled with sensitivity.
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lol I don't just complain straight out. I make naughty little comments. Make sure I rub something up against him when I walk by. That kind of stuff and he just isn't as responsive as he would normally be. And he has no answer as to why he's not in the mood.I'm pretty sure there isn't competition. As if someone could compete with me. ;-)If he's just not ahppy at work could that be enough? I know he's not, but it's not like horrible work conditions. I just don't think his supervisor appreciates what a Kick A$$ employee he has. He's fantastic at his job. (He'd be better at his bosses job. lol)
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Sounds like he has a lot on his mind hon, how long ago did you move?
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It sounds like he, may be, pretty stressed and stress can damn sure kill the mood. Not to mention he may feel pressured (self imposed pressure) from the lack of sex. That will just mean more pressure more stress and less desire, on his part.I don't think that's to uncommon of a problem, I've been there and back. The biggest problem, for me, was putting even more pressure on myself because we hadn't been having much sex. I don't really know how the problem got corrected, but in time it did correct itself.Don't know if this helps or not, but for what it's worth....
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It's been just over a year.
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Not so much helpful, but really appeciated. It's not quite so bad when you have friends to talk about it with.I just wish I could do somethign to fix it. Anybbody got a magic wand they could wave in the air and get it all fixed up?;)