OK i failed math. this is my second time failing math. SO this year i had a tutor for the whole semester. After getting a 53 on the mid-term report card, i didn't show it too much parents, because my dad gets violent when he's angry. When my dad yells... wow his yell can scare away a bear. So my mom found out and then they got really pissed and started yelling at me. They tell me all the time that if i get a 53 again they will kick me out of the house. They arn't expecting another fail!!! i promised not to. Im going to get yelled at, like i never been yelled at before. Im shitting my pants right now and im so afraid of telling them i feel like just running away and another bad thing is that I will disappoint my tutor. What do u think i should do
Scared to death
Dearest, if you actually tried your best they can't expect any more from you than that.
I'm sorry if they yell at you for that. That really sucks. You may need a better tutor one that works with learning problems. Maybe you need a different kind of help than that person is able to provide.
If you aren't doing you best you need to figure out why so you can get past it.
As for them throwing you out, you can always call the police if they do. Teens forget it's against the law for parents to do that. Foster care isn't great, but you may end up with a nice family, and if not you can call CPS on them.
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Its a crappy position to be in, noone can really answer this for you as there are soo many things to consider.
How old are you? What will running away really acheive? Personally i'd speak to your tutor about how your failure in maths is causing you distress, prehaps your tutor can help you pass. There job is to make sure you do there trying to help not the other way round!
Your parents only get anry with you because they want whats best for you, sure they can go too far at times but they do care, ultimately its your life.
EXCELLANT response Helms!
Please tell me you're a father.
Screw the whales, save the subjunctive!
Hes mah big bro!!
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
getting my report card tomorrow... guess i'll just sit down and take the yelling. Im expecting my dad to get alittle violent on me. Smack my head and yell at me very violently. Since my parents were expecting me to pass math with a tutor and my promising i will pass it just makes it worse. I will try not to talk back to them because i always talk back to them and that only makes them angry, but seriously... my dad has anger problems, he got a knife and tried to stab my sister, but she ran and locked her self in the bathroom and he said that he was gonig to kill himself aswell and if he does try to hit me i can't fight back because my muscles are so sore from a needle shot and from phys. ed.
Man you need to get help. Go talk to your GC befoer you leave school. There are laws against what you'r talking about. You don't have to take it.
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Try to let the yelling wash over you as best you can. If the violence gets to be more than you can take, leave and go to a friend's house.
If it continues like this you might consider whether you and your sister would be better off as wards of the state. If things are as you describe, this could be arranged.