I have a real bad problem
my last 2 gf's have left me becoz when i tell them that i have a kid due in a month thay say they cant handle it and its too much for them
i have been seeing my new gf natalie for 2 weeks and if i tell her im afraid she will leave me
HELP ME :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
the story goes i meet a girl she tricks me into getting her pregnant by not the pill.. then she leaves me 7 months into her pregnancy as she knows she is going to have it.. so i look for a new gf ..find a new gf tell her i have a kid due soon she leaves me so OK
Well, I dunno if it would help but uh. If you were dating a girl for like say 4 weeks. Then she told you she had a kid. Would you bail or stay? I mean. Girls don't want to be the ones torn between your baby and them.Its just really complicated. But the older we get the more accepting we become. If you're lucky maybe you'll meet a lady that would love you and the baby. Or at least accept it.Hey you gotta go through a thousand obstacles before you get to the prize. USE CONDOMS! Hang in there homie.
that is literally the story i didnt know why she left me all i know is she dont want me in her life and now has a restraining order against me id love to know why she left me
oh come on, people don't get restraining orders out on people for nothing. I think you have to take a good hard look at yourself and what you were like together as a couple. The answer to why she left you is there you just have to find it.
There are two sides to every story.....What's hers???
the only thing i can think of is when i went a bit mad at her for gettin pregnant i raised by voice a bit but i swear on my own mothers life i never hit her all i did was yell once but she still stayed with me for 7 months of her pregnancy
First of all… You never said how old you are…… But if you’re old enough to have unprotected sex, then you’re old enough for the responsibility that comes with parenthood. You life will change as you know it… Everything you do should be for the kid first!If in fact she is having YOUR baby... You have rights and you have responsibilities…. Unless you sign all of your parental rights over to her... If you do that, then technically, she and the baby are out of your life…. Personally, if it’s yours, then find out what happened between you two and fix it. Step up to the plate and be a man and support her and the baby. Help raise that child! That child is gonna be in your life for the rest of your life. Whether you want it or not….
It could be difficult for him to do much with a restraining order agaist him; and that usually means she doesn't want ever to see him again.It does seem we don't have the full story. A restraining order can be used maliciously since it's taken out unilaterally, but it must indicate the relationship has gone very sour, and we don't have enough information to understand why.
There are a lot of people in this world who are in the same situation your in. Its not easy having a baby out of wedlock, but whats done is done and you have to do your best to either make ammends with your babys mother and be in its life that way or work something out as far as custody/visitation goes. But dont keep going back and forth with her, cause it'll just cause confusion in the babys life, and its not his fault that hes being born into this situation. so just make the best of the situation. If this doesnt make u grow up, then nothing will. and as far as other girls go...you dont want to be with someone who doesnt accept your situation, trust me- there are people out there who will be fine with it. I was in the same situation, Im 23 and I have a 2 year old and when I broke up with her father I thought that nobody would ever want me cause of my situation but there have been a number of decent guys that have showed interest and tried to persue things with me (But Im not ready). Also dont listen to anyone whos never been in a situation like this, its easy for them to ridicule you when theyve never experienced it. Keep your head up, life is what you make of it, and it can be so beautiful. My daughter changed my life in so many ways. Shes the best thing thats ever happened to me, I hope you feel the same way. And dont back down to her in court, get a lawyer and try to persue joint custody/visitation. Fathers have more rights than most people think.
