I'm 14 years old. I pretty much masturbate every night, once everyone else goes to bed. Long story on how I got it, but I use a small vibrator. I always have an orgasm when I put the vibrator between my lips and move it up and down. When I insert the vibrator and move it in and out, it doesn't feel pleasurable. It's sort of uncomfortable. I am just worried about when I start to have sex, when I'm older, that I won't be able to orgasm. Does anyone have any advice on how to make it feel good, or can answer why it doesn't feel good in the first place? :scream_cat:
Is this normal?
That is normal, and many if not most women cannot orgasm from intercourse alone. But a vibrator is not a person, so it's hard to say how it will feel in that situation. It's likely to be very different.
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Don't worry about sex. It is very pleasurable!!!!!
A vibrator is different from a penis because it is attached to a person. His penis will move in and out of your vagina and most of the time it will also move against your clit too. So, therefore you will be fine. But there is another spot in which he should be able to reach with his penis, inside your vagina called your G-Spot. So don't worry about not being able to orgasm during sex.
Enjoy, masturbate, and pleasure yourself and have many orgasms with your vibrator and don't worry about sex quite yet.
It will be good, just wait some years to have sex.
well also youre still quite young, it might feel 'uncomfortable' because your hymen is not fully broken yet, possibly