Always a fun predicament to be in

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So I just got out of kind of a rocky relationship. This relationship happened to be my first sexual relationship. I think I got out of it about...a month ago or so?Unfortunately, my reputation preceded me in a huge way in the fact with my girlfriend, and she was never comfortable around me because she thought I was messing around with other girls. So now that I am single again, I have kinda fallen for someone that I had previously liked, but wrote it off when I started dating my now ex-girlfriend.I am taking this girl to prom, just asked her a couple days ago, but I am having mixed feelings about actually talking to her about my feelings towards her for two big reasons;1) I am fresh off of a breakup, even if it was kind of a dead relationship for the past couple of months, and would be getting a lot of flak around the horn from a lot of people.2) I am a senior, and graduating this year. She is a freshman. Now before the tomatoes start to fly and accusations of statutory rape are fired, give me a minute. I am not planning on having sex with her, because I am not ready to be in a sexual relationship. Also, it is illegal, and I am well-aware of the laws.So I want to know two things. Since this is such a sensitive situation, I was wondering if there were any telltale signs that she liked me back. I wouldn't want to ask, and then have the powder keg of the entire school explode in my face because she rejected me.However, I really like her, I always feel comfortable and at ease around her, and just enjoy spending time with her, and wish I could spend more time with her and get closer with her.The other thing is my ex. We are still friends, but she is very passive-aggressive, and good at guilting. How would I be able to deal with this?Sorry if this post is slightly confusing, I am trying to figure things out myself, and just want a little bit of help. I can clarify if necessary. Thanks

and then have the powder keg of the entire school explode in my face because she rejected me.Love is always a risk and the big first step in loving sompeone is to break the barriers of your fears. If you really love her, I believe you won't consider that much about your reputation in school or your image.>> We are still friends, but she is very passive-aggressive, and good at guilting. How would I be able to deal with this?I believe that first you have to listen to yourself. If you can't find a reason why you should feel guilty, then simply don't. Breaking up is really hard for many people (especially for girls) and sometimes they ease their pain by blaming their ex. Of course, don't be mad at her. You can always excuse yourself, if she tries to make you feel guilty. Stay calm and treat her nice. Maybe a nice discussion about your relationship is needed here.

there's that word again!

in the english language, perverted deceitul english language lol

Father... I wonder how your social life is. Scratch that. From your statement you mean... rape her?

<<>><<>>If she wasn't some what interested in you, I don't think she would go to prom with you.

Punisher, there are certain laws in certain states, called statutory rape laws.You should probably look them up.And yeah, I see what you mean about prom, but it's one of those issues where I want to make sure that she likes me in the more than friends way before I make a move. I know there is always some risk involved in love, but all the same.

Then ask her out to do something before prom so that won't be your first date. Take her out to dinner and a movie or something else no so typical maybe.

Now I'm convinced somethings not right with you looking at your other posts. You can't just say "bang her". If the girl says no to sex you can't bang her anyway... it's called dUn DuN dUn rape.

Don't bother. He's just screwing around.

::whine:: lol why don't I notice these things?! ugh

Since there is such an age gap.. have you been around her alot lately because if not she might be to immature for you and all. And for if she likes you.. she has to be somewhat interested in you since she is going to prom with her. Does she ever call you or touch you and flirt alot? Also dont back out of your date for prom with her because its my understanding that it takes alot of preperation and all to go.

I actually have spent a lot of time with her. Her sister is a big-time violinist, and I have gone down with their family a lot to NYC, and we have spent the day hitting the town.She is definitely not immature. I even thought that she was older than she was before she actually told me.

Because you have a power puff girl in your avatar.Isn't it really cute???? Personally, I adore it

sigh, I did say something but what difference does it make?

Isn't she cute though? :scream_cat:

The new image is almost 200 Kbytes. It's h-u-g-e.A smaller, non-distorted version is here, on ImageShack:http://img127.imageshack.us/img127/7771/romeomd190x674dl.jpg

ah! I'm sorry. Humans are never satisfied...

I'm human, and I'm satisfied.