My boyfriend and I have been having a little problem. Whenever he goes down on me, he can't get me to have an orgasm. We will be making out hardcore and he's feeling me up and I'm so wet then and when we actually goes down on me, he can't get me to have an orgasm. It's very frustrating for both him and I. He feel reallys bad that he can't. I sometimes move his hand and what with mine to place his where it feels better for me and what not. Anyone have any tips on what we can do for me to achieve an orgasm? Thanks.
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Question... fingering
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If you are trying to cum, its almost like a guarantee that you wont. I used to have the same problem, once I just enjoyed the process not focusing on cumming, I came. Are you able to orgasm when you masturbate?
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Yes I am.
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anyone else?
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By "going down" on you do you mean licking? Your title is a little confusing. Either way you it will take a lot of practice on his behalf and guidance by you. You have to direct him to where it feels good, tell him what to do and how to do it!
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Ok...If he's fingering you, ie thrusting his fingers in and out of your vagina, then chances are that you will not have an orgasm.If his face is in between you legs and he's licking you, that means the chances are higher but it depends on where he licks.To cut a long story short - it's all about the clit for most women. Tell him to gently rub a lubricated finger around you clit and on top, sometimes going faster, or slowing down - whatever feels good. The same goes for his tongue.