Problems having sex

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I have a problem that a lot of times when i try having sex i always cum within a few seconds, sometimes stopping and going helps but i dunno whats wrong with me. Iv had other gf's before and it happened then as well. what should i do, it seems to frusterate my gf although sometimes i am able to make it last long enough for her to orgasm,

There is a product called "ManDelay". I love that name. Andway, that might help ya. Or you could tape a picture of your mum above the bed and look at that whiel you're goin' at it.

Have a look at this thread.

this is all good but why is it its just when i have sex but not when i get bj's or hj's, i just tried to havbe sex in the car and it didnt work, i came in like 30 seconds, i had to tell her to get off.

Do you like sex better than bj's or hj's?

uhh well because of the anxiousness that i feel about having sex because i come so quick i like bj's and hj's more. but its not like im completely hesistant to have sex

It's very common for guys to take longer to cum with blowjobs and handjobs, because you have less control over the rate of stimulation. I think that's why woman on top positions let me last longer.

No, no. I mean the feel of the act. If you like the feeling better, it could be the simple cause of it feeling so good and you just get "there" quickly because of that.

do you think having lubed condoms makes me cum faster as well?