Emo hair now

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like a few days ago I got my hair cut emo style, minus the black hair, i dont want to be to much of a follower, I really like emo rock/emo core and indie and all that music so I dont care... but my friends do, because most of them are jocks and stuff and they usually make fun of me and say stuff like i cut my wrists and call me emo, but i dont care if im emo i guess i am . heres pics of me if u want to see my emo hair photobucket.com photobucket

looks good. But I doubt it'll make you happy that a 33 y/o lady likes it.

How do you see?

Only an antisocial person would really not want to fit in anywhere.
If this is where he wants to fit it seems as good a place as any.

I aint no poser
I got a P.H.D
Poser Hating Degree

and its not really bout music its who I am, and how i feel on the inside

Wait I didn't say you were a poser. I think you should cut your hair however it makes you most happy. You want to know what my son is getting me for my birthday next year? He's going to get a Mohawk for the day. I've always wanted him to get one and he thinks they are weird but he knows I'll like it so that's what he's getting me.

I am calling you a poser. That is the same response every emo type person gives. It is how I feel on the inside. I think that fitting in is okay to a certain degree. Why change your looks to fit in be yourself. I mean you even called it a emo haircut. So what you are saying is you wanted to be like every other person that is emo.

And you don't want to fit in? Every healthy person needs to fit in somewhere. So what if he wants to be an emo let him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Well if you get a haircut that doesn't follow any convention at all, and is purely individual, people don't like it.I think this one looks good, Osir1sSk8r.

Well see there is fitting in and being yourself and fitting by changing yourself. I mean persoanlly I get a hiarcut and wear clothes that are my own taste and style. I do not like following trends it is stupid and I would be changing myself.I mean it is unhealthy to make yourself ove so you can simply fit in. If he is getting a haircut and acting emo because it is a fad then for shame because it is not him. I mean I am firm believer of being yourself and never trying to fit in. I mean I have great friends, granted they are back at Purdue, but you make friends regardless and your best friends will be the ones that like you for you and not for fitting in. He is just going to make him look cool and happy and it will eventually dawn that it is useless to "fit in." But everyone is a poser, I mean we as humans do things to get noticed. Just people usually go afters fads as the way to do it.

I mean I guess what gets me, is that I hate fads. I think they are the stupidest things in the world. Hence why I tend to be friends who are off the beaten path. It is stupid to follow a simple trend that everyone follows. I hate it, and especially hate emo, something about that fad really bugs me.

pretty cute

I disagree that that he only got that hair cut to fit in. He chose that hair cut because he liked it. I'm sure emo's have more than one acceptable hair cut. You aren't going to get booted out because you don't have that exact hair cut. In fact he may like that group in part because he likes those hair cuts. If there were a number of things from that social click he likes it would make perfect sense for him to be part of it. It is more likely that he likes that group because he likes things about it than for the soul purpose of fitting in to just any group out of desperation. Personally, I get annoyed by people who are always claiming to be so anti-trendy. Because that in fact it also a trendy thing to do. People like you were around when I was in high school too. Always so damn judgmental of others and not of themselves.

But that is true for all of us. Does that mean we are all posers?

Yep everyone is a poser. We always do things to get noticed, human nature. I mean I am not putting in a V8 360 cubic inch engine in to my lifted Jeep Cherokee b/c I do not want to get noticed. I mean I want to and the attention is a definite plus. But poasing is attention. I mean even James Hetfield says it. I mean what he drives is a pose, we do it for attention.

Then why say anything. Why do you want to upset someone? Why do you want to make them feel bad? I say it shows an insecurity about yourself.

I do not want to mak ehim feel bad, but he asked for input. So I gave it.

And what kind of cave has internet access? :grin:

But by making a statement you knew would cause him to be hurt, it says something about you. There was no positive reason to make the comment. Calling someone a poser is the same as calling them a fake and phony person. He asked if we wanted to see his hair cut. Not to tell him what you think of other social clicks. Everyone needs to feel validated occasionally.