well me and my girlfriend just started doing real sexual stuff, my problem is when were in the mood we start making out and she goes for my pines and then its fully erect, but when she starts to touch it, it goes down. im 17 and i never had sex before and all the things were doing is new for me. I dont know, but i was reading around on Afraidtoask.com and i think its because its new to me and i feel nervous. I was just wondering if anyone out there would know how to stop this?
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maybe ask her to not touch you there or tell her to keep up with the caressing and making out. Anxiety can make a guy lose his erection. I know, out of the hundreds of attemps on fooling around on my ex with a very hot woman, only half of my attempts were sucessful. Always woried about being caught. You may be worried about performing to her standards. Maybe ask her to use her lips on it and see if that works.
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thanks for awnsering my question so fast. yeah maby ill do that.
anymore people there to help me out?
There are so many reasons why it happens. Most likely it’s some sort of performance anxiety. Such as ….If you’re sneaking about and trying to have sex without getting caught. You need to be focused and relaxed and things should work just fine….
Hey thanks Roc for the advice ill take that in hand,that seems to be it.
anyone else who can help?