Scenario: Absence makes the heart grow fonder?

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Is it true that "Absence makes the heart grow fonder?"Ok, what if you knew a girl for 7 months, and you got REALLY REALLY EXTREMELY close... but you can't talk or get close with her for 10 months will she still be close to you?Is it true that when something or someone gets in your heart, it's hard for them to forget or get over you?Thanks

Somewhat. I used to talk to this girl quite a bit last year when I was in her class. This year I'm not in any of her classes, so we don't talk at all, but I still have some feelings for her, although they aren't as strong as when I used to talk to her almost every day.

Yes, I hate it when part of a sig looks like a post.And to respond to your response... I'm talking about REAL close, like we talked every day for 4 hours on AIM ... average. We talked a lot and we know each other really well..... Going from something like that to say, 10 months of no talking...

personally i dont feel you can make a generalization on this topic. I really think it depends on the girl, you, and how you feel about eachother. I also believe alot in fate. So if it were me in ur situation, id look at how you both feel about eachother first. Because if you both truley care deeply for eachother, you will never lose those feelings

well then what you said is the case... In reply to: if you both truley care deeply for eachother, you will never lose those feelings that is very true... and even if we dont talk much for a while(10 months), hopefully we wont lose those feelings. i know i probably wont... and she probably wont either, i was just asking a generic question.

yea i mean i know i would be askin the same thing in your position. sometimes an outside source is good to ask cuz u tend to have different opinions whens its happening too you. but i wouldnt worry about it. like i said i feel things are somewhat of fate. you guys both do what you have to do, if you are supposed to be together you will.

ok. well if that's the case, then I know that i wont fade away in her heart. it will take a lot for her to erase me from her heart, even if she erases me from her emotions.

Hey guys...
I read every thing you guys wrote... although it sounds good hate to burst your bubble....In my experiences... it seem like once someone else comes along to take her mind and heart off of you... your gone except for the memory... Unless, it's your very first love. Nobody ever forget their first love...

So.... Is it true that "Absence makes the heart grow fonder?" I don't thin k so. Some sappy old romantic said this.... Along with "If you love her let her go... If it was meant to be she'll come back...." Blah, blah, blah.

I say.... "If you love her let her go... If it doesn't come back... hunt it down and shoot it!

Absence makes the heart go wander!

Well tonight I had to take my son to BBall practice and my gf had to drive an hour away to see her daughters play. We were apart for several hours longer then just the work day that we are used to not seeing each other.I missed the shit out of her and im patiently waiting to hear my car pull into the driveway and her key click into the front door.Shes absent, Im missing her and feeling fondly and uhh waiting to fondle her when she gets home

All im tryin to tell him is to not get so hooked up on her. It will make him go crazy. He needs to realise that if she truley wants to be with him no matter what she wont lose those feelings, thats how i feel

And I completely agree with you on that one :smile: