Hey everyone. I just have one quick question...
I'm 16 and haven't been sexually active at all . Last night my girlgriend and I were just making out on my sofa (as usual). I started to lift up her shirt, until my fingers met her bra-strap at the back. I decided to make a move and start un-doing it. She didn't stop me so I just kept going...(This was the furthest I'd ever been with a girl by the way). I un-did the hooks and slid my hands past her sides and felt my first breast. They're truly amazing...ANYWAYS...we just kept kissing and I was rubbing her breast and trying my best to play with her nipples while her shirt was still on. She's very self-concious and didn't want to take of her shirt...whatever, no problem. So I just just rubbing her left breast/nipple and when I decided to give the right side some attention, her nipple was hard. Also, while I was rubbing, she kind of shivered and twitched...I couldn't tell if this was out of pleasure or just because I might have been tickling her a bit.
1. Do her shivering and hard nipples mean I'm doing something right...or am I just tickling her?
2. Is she really amused?
3. What can I do next time thats not TOO sexual, but will exite her beyond belief?
Thanks for reading
My girlfriend's breasts
Hey everyone. I just have one quick question...
Hello welcome to the boards. Well its hard to say but she may be a little ticklish, or she found it arousing. Either way the important thing is that you didnt hurt her. Its normal for girls to be self concious like that, it will take some time for her to warm up too you in that manner. But good job being patient, especially when you are in the moment. I say keep it up, and most importatnly do things at a safe pace for her. Dont do anything she doesnt want until shes ready. The important thing for you two too do is communicate. Ask her if she liked it, what you can do differently, etc..... You will be surprised how easy it will make things.
- doing something right
2. she might just be nervous
3. pinch her nipples-not too hard, or lick them...dont know about exciting her beyond belief, but I sure do get a kick out of it.
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- doing something right
Thanks a lot for your help and information. I know what you mean when you tell me not to do anything the doesn't feel confortable with. We've talked that over ourselves...I told her to stop me if she ever gets unconfortable or if I do something she'd rather me not do. I find it works well and also doesn't spoil "the moment" like someone might expect. She didn't want me to remove her shirt, so I didn't. Things went great and we're both happy! The last thing I want to do is hurt her, or make her feel like we're rushing through things...I'm 16, I have plenty of time. whenever she feels ready, I'm here for her.
So once again, thanks for all your input and if anyone has something else to say, feel free.
Well im glad i could help you out. And keep on goin the route you have been, in the long run you will be greatful you are that kind of person
congrats on your first feel up dude. they are amazing.
Hehe yeah thanks bowtieboy731! I do have another question tho...
Last night (Feb. 17) my girlfriend came over. (We're both 16) Everything was good, we watched Beauty and the Beast haha yeah, we're cool! :sunglasses: Anyways, after the movie, I kissed her on the neck and we made out a little bit. When I casually asked what I can do to make her feel good, she stopped everything. She said she got her period that day and that she wasn't in the mood. She appologized for not being "horny" and everything and I told her it was okay and not to worry. She said she felt guilty for being a "bad girlfriend" and I told her she was the best girlfriend I'd ever had (which is an inside joke because she knows shes my first real girlfriend :grin:). So that sort of lightened the mood a little bit, but is this a regular side effect of that time of the month, or am I just doing something horribly wrong?
Congrats! I'm still waiting for my first gf and to see/touch breasts! It sucks to be disabled. I miss out on everything.
Regular side effect of that time of the month.. we get emotional, have mood swings and become horny (horny BEFORE our period) lol maybe that's just me?
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Alright, cool. Thanks
Sorry..I know I have a lot of questions but I decided to make them al in the same thread to save some space...
Last night I was playing with my g/f's breasts while we made out. She kept twitching when I hit the right spot and I kept rubbing the same way and it seemed like she was having an orgasm. I know she didn't, but it seemed like it felt REALLY good. After we finished our thing, she told me her nipple hurt. I asked her if it was me and she said that when it gets hard, it hurts if I touch it. She said that when I focus on one nipple, the other one gets hard, and when I go to play with the hard one, it hurts her. I obviously stopped, but I'm not too sure why this is happenning...Are her nipples hard because she's turned on? Is this normal? Why does it hurt when her nipples are hard? How (if I can) can I prevent her nipples from getting hard?
She said she had VERY sensitive nipples, and thats a good thing for me , but I don't know why they hurt her sometimes. Please help
why oh why do peopel think when girls nipples get hard...its cuz they r turned on...
why do guys nipps get hard...cuz they r turned on? uhh no its just a react of the muscles...just like how u get goose bumps when ur cold...ur nips will get hard do to certain things.
not exactly sure what she means by they 'hurt' but i can understand if they r really sensitive.
ask her to be more specific...are they always this sensitive? do they just hurt when shes turned on? is she on her period...cuz for some girls thier boobs get sore/tender.
just get more info
by the way...to the question u asking about her not being 'turned on'...its normal for the most part.
most any girls will kiss n stuff...but depending on the girl some wont go super far if they are not turned on.
like my gf...she wont dive into having sex unless she is turned on...if she is not then she has to be put in the mood before she will do stuff...sometimes shes in the mood sometimes not.
i think being on thier period really effects considering its not exactly a fun time (wit my gf the cramps r bad...and just think about it...if u have a killer stomach ache...would u wanna screw around?).
Most of the time, most women get very sensitive nipples and like them played with, touched, tugged on, rolled around in between the fingers and tweaked when they become sexually aroused....
Nipples will even harden up when it cold...... Men like to refer to women’s hard nipples as a turn on because we can usually see them erect thru her blouse and we find it hot and arousing….
Please answer the question...
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Why does it hurt when her nipples are hard?
Come on, If her nipples aren't hard because she's aroused...then why are they?
All I want to know is why do her nipples hurt when I'm paying with them while they're hard. Maybe some girls can answer because they can better understand what it's like. I just don't want to hurt my girlfriend and I want to make her feel good. She said they've never really bothered her before...Could it be that she had her period last week? I just need advice...
i dont know about 'hurt' but my nipples used to be so sensitive that i didnt like touching them, its kinda hard to explain..but after a while it felt good..that doesnt answer your question i guess although i just dont know what you mean by them hurting..
I don't know either...She wasn't in SHARP PAIN, but she said it just hurt a little bit. I talked to her today (only a day later) and she said they're fine. She explained it as:
"Getting a handjob for too long...it feels good, but it just starts to hurt after so much of the same motion"
I don't know how accurate this is, and I've never had a handjob myself, so I don't know how it is but if she's fine a day later I don't think it's really anything to be worried about.
thanks for all your help
Let me try to explain. First, my nipples are sensitive too. They are always hard. So to answer your question about whether they are hard because she is aroused, no. Mine get harder when they are cold, but that's about it.
When it comes to foreplay, I like some attention given to my breasts, but not too much. I like them licked, squeezed, caressed etc. But if you are going to start sucking on them I would push you away. That hurts! At least for me it does. Girls are different. Now, when they are being touched/licked, if he is doing it for awhile in the same general area, that starts to not feel good also. So you got to mix it up a bit. Go back and forth between the two.
Hope that helped.
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Hard nipples is a total sign of aroused amoung women..