Ok...A little background on me. Im 16 and a junior in HS. Im a pretty shy guy and I dont have many social skills.but I do think I am a fairly attractive guy...but I dont talk to many ladies or have had many girlfriends. Well, I met this girl at my friends party the Saturday before Valentines Day. (we were both a little drunk) She asked me to dance with her and I did (first time dancing). At the end of the party SHE asked for my number (which I thought was funny) and I gave it to her. The next 2 days we talked on the phone for like 2 hours each day...She seemed like a pretty cool person. We had alot in common, we were both in the Vbasketball program in school, liked the same music, ect. Well Valentines comes around and I get her candy and stuff. She tells me that she wants to go out (she was very agressive). Ok so I take her out to dinner...The date was great, but I made a mistake...I asked her to be my Girlfriend...and well she said yes and we kissed...my first kiss...ever. Well its been 3 days and Ive realized...the only feelings I have for her now are disgust. I mean...she doesnt really groom herself or anything.(i was never really attracted to her in the first place) She has like more facial hair than I do. Shes loud,rude and sort of a tomboy...and i feel kind of embarrassed walking around with her in school. I really want to break up...but its hard because I feel like I used her because I was so desperate to be with someone on Vday. I guess I kind of wanted to test myself how good I would do on a date...and I was damm good and since that date my confidence in girls has skyrocketed. I just dont know how to break up...What should I tell her?Plus I know shes really likes me and Everyone says were cute and stuff so that doesnt help...I cant decide weather I should end it or just go along...Im afraid people will think bad of me because I did that...especially her friends and the whole girls bball team. WHAT SHOULD I DOOO AND WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER IF I DECIDE TO END IT?
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My case....Need help!
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End it right away. The longer it drags out the deeper her feelings for you will be. As to what to tell her, be honest. If you were a jerk, take your lumps. And next time think about the other person at least a little. Don't try to take the cowards way out. Don't make up some story to save yourself. At least show some integrity at some point.
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I agree with helms. Looks aren't everything. She probably really is a nice girl and you might really hurt her feelings if you break up with her. And she might feel used also. Try and bear it. If you look past looks you can find someone better.
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Wait a minute. Would you rather stay with a guy that doesn't like you and have him hoping he may start caring about you or end it early? The longer they are together the harder it will be on her when they break up. I personally would rather he broke up with me than to waste MY time with someone who doesn't care about me and used me. Forget about whether she's nice, he's a jerk in this case. He's wasting her time. She could be with someone that cares about her now.
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But I wasn't saying it that way I was just telling him if he looked past her looks he might see a nice girl. Otherwise I guess he can just tell her the truth, but I thought he said he liked her.
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Sorry I replied to the wrong person. (Like the second time today.) In reply to: but I thought he said he liked her In reply to:the only feelings I have for her now are disgust
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amz - stop spamming
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what the hell are you talking about?
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This makes more then one post were he goes off fcalling us bitch and telling us to post would a mod kindly have a discussion with the little bastard?
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Good call chance, hes getting on my nerves too!
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The way I see it this is a serous board, you can contribute and be productive or you should piss off so that people that want to use the board correctly and with its intended parameters can do so with out all the extra annoying bullshit.bullshit that we are all guilty of from time to time but if the only thing you have to contribute is bullshit, piss off.Its not a porn site is a help site he appears to me to be cruising for some naughty stories or pics to spank his crazy monkey.
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Ok, I've decided I'm going to break up with her...but when should i do it? Today is saturday and im supposed to go on a date with her tonight. Should I call her and tell her we should just be friends? Or should I go along on the date and break up with her on Monday in school?
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Do Not do it over the phone. Come on! Don't wimp out on us now.
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it sounds like u guys have alot in common. i'd say be open to her and see what happens
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ohh i didn't read all of ur post until now, i'd say its best to do it in person and be straight forward with her