Why do i puss out?

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Why don't you try with an ACTUAL relationship, rather then trying to get a one night stand?

because i wouldn't know where to start and it's too late for that i missed out on all the juvenile dating experience in high school so im fucked for life.

what the hell are you talkin about? just because you didnt date in high school ur screwed? what world are you living in. See ur problem is you have no confidence in urself. you think ur nothing. women like confidence

remove that pic plz..... everytime i look at ur posts it makes me feel gay lol

Yeah well there's no confidence because this is new territory I have no knowledge of. I don't know the first thing about asking a girl out, fuck I can't even seem to locate single women. Even the single girls always have an on again/off again boyfriend or fuck buddy so it's quite difficult.

and you think ur the only one to experience this problem? join the world of every single man. you need to get over it and realise that you need to start thinking positive.

Yeah well I'm the only one almost never getting laid, infrequent enough to say never

that explains alot. I think the reason you talk the way you do is because you arent happy with urself. you go out and do the things you do for that reason. look as much as u piss me off on this site, u need to realise something. just because things dont go your way with everything doesnt mean it will never happen. dont worry so much about gettin "laid". worry about being patient and finding the right girlfor you. treat women with respect, treat them like you want to be treated. dont treat them like meat and try to get in their pants. be respectful to them, and confident about urself

isn't the answer obvious? u puss out cause ur a pussey.... ur overthinking it lol :P

Most worth while girls (the ones that generally dont carry diseases...) dont want to just have sex. They want a relationship with a person that also wants a relationship because, you really need to get it thru your sick skull, other people think a lot differently then you do, and you really need to realize this. you sound like you just want to complain all day instead of living your life, and thats fine. be a drunked high loser its your choice, but your never going to get anywhere that way girl wise (or anything else wise).

You're right, I'm thinking of confronting this fear by picking a fight with someone much larger than me. I figure if I can even fight him and lose I can do anything.

I'm not just some loser trolling for sex. I just realize I won't find that because I'm not the asshole star of the football team. I have a better chance just looking for meaningless fucks because eventually the odds are in my favor.

I hope they reinstate the draft, then I'll flee to Canada while the whole war thing blows over, come back and at least some of the women's boyfriends will have died in war.

I guess self-respect is out of the question. lol

Dude, I was a science olympiad, I had Glasses, i had read the rise and fall of the roman empire, and I was shy. People have had it worse then you. I didn't sit there and waste all my time drunk, i didnt have sex until i was eh...19 or 20 i think. It was with a girl friend i had been with for about 9 months. I had confidence in myself cause I always knew that Having a girlfriend or sex wasnt the most important thing in life, and it didnt drive me to do stupid things (IE: Take advantage of a drunk girl). I had no idea how to talk to girls, but that didnt matter. I just asked if they wanted to go out for coffee or to a pub. You really really need to stop over thinking things.

Self respect went out with him in the 80's

Ya read the books by Robert Graves?

I was refering to Michael Grant, but i have read Robert Graves too. Btw, White lines, have you ever tried to be friends with a girl rather then just try and get into her pants?

Yeah it never works out beyond being casual aquaintances...

Make it more. Be there for a girl, Fall in love with a girl. Be great friends with them, and then casually, nicely, and politely ask them out. It would take a while though...I mean it wont happen in an instant but you should try to...how do i put this better, find someone who has things incommon with you and i dont mean getting pissed drunk. Java...Help me..